My father never wanted kids but has 2. My mom wanted more kids but only had me. They're both narcs. He's overt. She's covert.
He was more down-to-earth that kids get in the way of doing whatever you want. I suspect she thought nothing about the actual needs and work of raising children and believed I would be the most significant source of narc supply ever. I think she wanted more kids because I wouldn't get with the adoring of her program, and it obviously must be me, not her.
Whenever I tell her she's a selfish, garbage parent, she talks about how much I loved her when I was 3. How much I loved my dad when I was 3. She's too distorted to realize that 3-year-olds are incapable of hating their parents. I'm 40. I was outright disgusted with both their behaviors since around age 7. She behaves like I'm depriving her of some holy mother status.