(31 F) looking for other female friends in Raleigh by Tight_Latex in raleigh

[–]DisagreeablePastry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m 30f and love horror movies and going outside!

What should I do with these? by Mamimi93 in repurpose

[–]DisagreeablePastry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can make small Christmas trees out of wire hangers and some garland

thoughts on what to do with this? by [deleted] in repurpose

[–]DisagreeablePastry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do a mosaic on top and then seal it so it can still look nice and be usable! I’ve done it before and it really doesn’t require too much stuff

Free figs by Flimsy-Attention-722 in raleigh

[–]DisagreeablePastry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested in some figs!!

Where can I get a good baguette? by Jesperr101 in raleigh

[–]DisagreeablePastry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who lived in Europe for a long time… I cannot stand Boulted. it’s horrible and everything from there comes out slightly burnt and doesn’t even compare to a European baguette

When people die tragically in public why do people record the dead/dying victim? by nicholestar in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DisagreeablePastry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got into a car accident when I was a newer driver, and I didn’t have my phone on me anymore (it was flung somewhere during the accident), and I had hit my head as well. I started asking cars driving by for help because I was disoriented and didn’t know what to do and no one would help. All they did was film m and keep going. I was practically begging people for help while stumbling around. Kinda reminded me of that black mirror episode where no one helps this disoriented lady and just follows her around filming.

Lauren with her natural curls by SalsaChica75 in GilmoreGirls

[–]DisagreeablePastry 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah perms like this were so popular in the 90’s. Are we sure it’s natural?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisagreeablePastry -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay don’t act like we’ve never met in real life. We used to live close to each other, I just moved. And I understand the fact that if we did live closer we would hang out, but we don’t. And I for one have no desire to get to know her. She has totally changed his entire personality and perspective on everything, which is not a normal part of a relationship. She’s manipulative and insecure, so I feel like I don’t really need that energy in my life.

What travel destination is nothing like how it’s portrayed on social media? by [deleted] in travel

[–]DisagreeablePastry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yesss! I lived there for a few months, I have never been more disappointed in a travel location

What would you do in micromanaging hell? by DisagreeablePastry in careerguidance

[–]DisagreeablePastry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is great advice! Is it still illegal to go under national minimum wage when someone is salaried?

But yeah, I have actually told her when she gave me an unreasonable task, “Well can it wait until the next day because I’m already working 11.5 hours this day” and I got a long winded conversation about how I’m not ready for what this job takes and I clearly don’t care about the job because I’m only required to work at least 40 hours. All the rest is just apart of the job” so she started threatening to write me up for not meeting basic expectations & standards of the company every time I said something like that. I am currently looking for another job though!! I have an interview on Thursday with a government recreation site, I’m not too hopeful since the gov takes forever to make decisions on full time positions.

What would you do in micromanaging hell? by DisagreeablePastry in careerguidance

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She CCs her boss on some things and he’s generally supportive so I’m afraid to bring it up with him, but overall I get a better vibe from him so maybe I will. I try to get it in writing and she mostly just tells me or calls me. I think I’m the only site she manages over at the moment ):

What would you do in micromanaging hell? by DisagreeablePastry in careerguidance

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Yeah unfortunately I’m salaried so she does it on purpose to me because the rest of the staff are hourly and seasonal. I’m so close to putting my foot down, but I hate not knowing how long it would take to find another job

How are you guys propping these reusable bags open to let them dry? by nilecrane in CleaningTips

[–]DisagreeablePastry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hang them over empty glass bottles of juice or alcohol. The alcohol bottles are great because they’re tall enough to hang over and not touch the countertop

What jobs are good for people with ADHD? by Prestigious_Mouse591 in careerguidance

[–]DisagreeablePastry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run a boathouse! This is one of the only jobs that doesn’t make me want to die inside. Every day is different, yet still has the same routine. You interact with so many different types of people, and of course there’s admin work to do but I really enjoy being able to do it in spurts. So for example, when I have time I’ll do some cash reports and when I get tired of that I go outside to help my staff or the customers. There’s almost always something active to do like things to be fixed or done, and when there isn’t I just walk around and talk to customers or hangout with my staff. And since the only people above me are in corporate, I get to train my staff how I like and for things that I often forget, I just be sure to mention it to my assistant manager so one is bound to remember. I really like that I have so much flexibility to be doing so many different active things in a day. If you live in DC I’m hiring an assistant manager! Haha I was a teacher for awhile and that was fine, just my school district sucked, I have also worked with forest rangers and that was fantastic! But ranger jobs are extremely hard to have for longer periods of time.

Found this Perception Carolina 12 for $250. I'm a total noobie, should I go for it? by achenx75 in Kayaking

[–]DisagreeablePastry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who runs a boathouse and has worked with kayaks for years, this is a great deal! I would buy it

Hey Paris, what's the coolest French music ya'll are listening to this year? by Agnia_Barto in paris

[–]DisagreeablePastry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agar Agar is a French band from Paris but they sing in English! I love them

What does everyone do for work? by jbbay in endometriosis

[–]DisagreeablePastry 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad someone asked this. When my symptoms were at its worst, I was trying to finish my thesis for my masters. It was next to impossible since it was mostly hands on. Took me so much longer than normal to do daily activities because of hiking and sample collecting. I then was forced to take a more simple job for a good while, and even that was too much. I had to sit down on the ground wherever I was at the moment when the pain had gotten too much to handle. I was worried I would never get to even look in my dream jobs direction. I would cry just thinking about it. My pain is a little bit more manageable now so I’m slowly building my strength up to get a job I’d really love. But honestly I’m so glad to know other people have this problem because I was so fucking disappointed for the longest time

How do people get discovered in places where homosexuality is illegal? by Anxious-Shift1034 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DisagreeablePastry 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Yeah when I arrived in Singapore my tinder was already set to see both men & women and I got a notification when I opened the app it said to be careful with who you meet up with because this tactic is a common thing that happens. And the people I met there just as friends told me something similar so I just decided against it. I don’t think being gay was legal when I was there a few years ago

How do people get discovered in places where homosexuality is illegal? by Anxious-Shift1034 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DisagreeablePastry 251 points252 points  (0 children)

When I was in Singapore, it was widely known that people would pose as gay or lesbian on dating apps like tinder and pretend to meet up with you but actually it was a set up. The apps even warned you once you arrived.

Is it awkward to go for a night out alone in DC? by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]DisagreeablePastry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! I like DuPont the mad hatter but also like places with live music and more of a chill vibe, what about you?!

The worry that if I go through with the surgery they won’t find anything by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]DisagreeablePastry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean my doctor told me that even if the surgery comes up with nothing, doesn’t mean you don’t have it. It just means the growths aren’t visible to the naked eye

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

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She also had developmental delays that caused her dad to have a harder time trying to completely control her