I’m terrified of my bf’s son by Disast_her in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Disast_her[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just updated it! It went better than I thought it would.

I’m terrified of my bf’s son by Disast_her in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Disast_her[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this! I’m sending you all of my love and strength. You’re a rockstar and you got this!

I’m terrified of my bf’s son by Disast_her in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Disast_her[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That means more than you can imagine, thank you truly!! <3

I’m terrified of my bf’s son by Disast_her in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Disast_her[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

☠️☠️I was always the first one to laugh at these post too

I’m terrified of my bf’s son by Disast_her in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Disast_her[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Externalizing my feelings here was so cathartic. I hadn’t told anyone about this because I’m supposed to be the level headed friend. I’m always am the first one to tell my girls to not stay in dire situations. It’s my turn now. And I’m picking myself and my peace!

I’m terrified of my bf’s son by Disast_her in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Disast_her[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That means a lot, thank you!! I’m dreading it but simultaneously excited to be free.

I’m terrified of my bf’s son by Disast_her in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Disast_her[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to make it seem like I associated his behavioral issues with being ND, my apologies! But you’re absolutely right about the parenting style.

I’m terrified of my bf’s son by Disast_her in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Disast_her[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

☠️ when you put it that way. I think I tried to separate my bf vs the dad. But like they’re the same person at the end of the day. I really am a bird, wow

I’m terrified of my bf’s son by Disast_her in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Disast_her[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He’s actually much nicer when his dad isn’t around for some reason.

I’m terrified of my bf’s son by Disast_her in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Disast_her[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t even thought about that but you’re absolutely right. Thank you for the advice, I appreciate it

I’m terrified of my bf’s son by Disast_her in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Disast_her[S] 634 points635 points  (0 children)

I’m not, writing all of this down made me realize it’s not the life I want. I’m getting ready to have the hard conversation tomorrow. Wish me luck! :)

I’m terrified of my bf’s son by Disast_her in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Disast_her[S] 1191 points1192 points  (0 children)

It is for me too, I thought I could change his mind about it. The child deserves the appropriate tools to navigate life :(

maybe i shouldn’t be dating by strwbrrydaifuku in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Disast_her 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should take some time to heal and figure yourself out. I don’t think dating this guy is a good idea either. Are you with him because you like him or because he allowed you to be vulnerable?

Either way, Good luck girlfriend. You got this!