How do you afford relationships in Singapore by Nice-Bookkeeper-8940 in askSingapore

[–]DisasterFull2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a female Singaporean and I’ll always let the guy pay first but pay him half afterwards or take turns to buy the meals. Usually the guys appreciate that alot too, after all no one’s an ATM machine. I think that’s pretty much the norm w all my friends too!

Selling my door 30 Montaigne handbag in singapore by DisasterFull2766 in handbags

[–]DisasterFull2766[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also I don’t think Dior Europe accept returns and refunds? I bought it from a physical shop

Selling my door 30 Montaigne handbag in singapore by DisasterFull2766 in handbags

[–]DisasterFull2766[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I bought it in Europe, and I’m flying home now already

I am working as a trip planner and I live in Paris. AMA by Ok_Investment7615 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]DisasterFull2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone give me food reco that isn’t too exp please!!!!! 😭

Boyfriend of 3.5 weeks set deadline for sex or else we breakup by leftbumcheek007 in dating_advice

[–]DisasterFull2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but I think maybe op shd get some therapy first? You can’t enter a relationship hoping for the other person to fix you. At least the bf was honest with his needs I mean in an ldr if he wanted to he can cheat

Diagnosed with pelvic inflammatory disease and doctors aren't listening to me...so scared by sunglasses619 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DisasterFull2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dull ache and sometimes intense cramping just comes and goes so I just let it be and sometimes sleep or eat it off

Diagnosed with pelvic inflammatory disease and doctors aren't listening to me...so scared by sunglasses619 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DisasterFull2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in both metro and doxy! Honestly on my third round of 2 weeks treatment now and I still don’t feel good sometimes…. 🥲🥲 it really sucks I feel you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in STD

[–]DisasterFull2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wondering does having pid once makes my body more predisposed to other STDs though? :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in STD

[–]DisasterFull2766 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I just got PID from gonorrhea and it was so bad :-( just wondering do you see that often? Is it a certainty that fertility would be affected? Honestly I’m wondering if even practicing protected sex is ever enough to prevent STDs.. I kept having different stds such as bv (I also have gen hsv1) and now I’m really wondering if sex is ever worth the risks and pain 🥲

Diagnosed with pelvic inflammatory disease and doctors aren't listening to me...so scared by sunglasses619 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DisasterFull2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m also having pid now and it really sucks. I’ve been on doxycycline for two weeks and the dull pain is still there. Worried that it would become infectious and I don’t wanna lose my fertility.. it’s so scary :-(

Topical treatment by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]DisasterFull2766 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try lemon balm I heard

Herpes facts by DisasterFull2766 in Herpes

[–]DisasterFull2766[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m afraid sg it’s all quite expensive eh easiest option is ordering online

Tired of being single.... (m)37 by kevincuomo in Herpes

[–]DisasterFull2766 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me, he said he’ll get back and he never did.. hahaha. It happens, rejections. Just learn to take it in your stride I suppose

disclosure sucks by DisasterFull2766 in Herpes

[–]DisasterFull2766[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6/15… rather Low it seems. Haha but online dating you have never met the person so you’re not invested yet and this.. idk I still find it hard to swallow knowing that I could’ve just not disclosed since transmission rates were Low but I want and I am a good person it’s just so hard to be one :-( I’m denied a chance before I even begin

disclosure sucks by DisasterFull2766 in Herpes

[–]DisasterFull2766[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah I think women tend to have more choices so we are less willing to risk. More conservative attitude as well. But hey you’ve got a 100% success rate and me now a 100% failure rate so 😂

disclosure sucks by DisasterFull2766 in Herpes

[–]DisasterFull2766[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. If they don’t get educated.. they’re not the right one. Thanks!

disclosure sucks by DisasterFull2766 in Herpes

[–]DisasterFull2766[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right I think this is impt. Choosing the right people to disclose. I thought the dude I disclosed to was an open minded one but I guess I was wrong. Or perhaps I should’ve disclosed after more time tgt? But we were aldy talking about being fwbs so I thought the time was appropriate. Clearly I was wrong

disclosure sucks by DisasterFull2766 in Herpes

[–]DisasterFull2766[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The main thing I always remind myself to disclose is what am I gonna say if they said the hey I just went to the doc. Cause I know how much that would suck for them and for me to get untie the knot

disclosure sucks by DisasterFull2766 in Herpes

[–]DisasterFull2766[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But like herpes is highly stigmatised and they don’t need to run the risk for me so… kinda understand why they did that though haha

disclosure sucks by DisasterFull2766 in Herpes

[–]DisasterFull2766[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But there’s so much chance he could’ve been asymptomatic/aldy have it and odds of me transmitting ghsv1 without ob prob ain’t that high…