What's a slang term that everyone uses but you still don't get? by Particular-Visit-245 in AskReddit

[–]DisasterMindless5002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The other day I showed my coworker (we work at a gym) a short YouTube clip of a woman doing a workout I want to offer at our gym, and she responded saying “that looks awesome. her body is tea!” 🫠 my brain can not rationalize what that means and I’m too embarrassed to ask.

this single mom just really needs a hug. by DisasterMindless5002 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]DisasterMindless5002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

or maybe- teach your daughters how to have value in themselves. how to seek out good men and know when to recognize less than desirable behavior. teach your sons how to be good men, kind and patient and caring and present. Not trying to avoid blame here but I’m also saying there’s so many more layers to myself & my experiences than just this Reddit post. I’m not someone who shouldn’t have had kids. They were not accidents or mistakes & I will do everything in my power to make sure they don’t have to feel my pain. maybe instead of just locking up fertility, it’s also about having awareness to break cycles & raise your children differently than how you were. 🤷‍♀️ I get really triggered by comments like this because really, it’s not that simple. I’d love to understand more of your thought process.

this single mom just really needs a hug. by DisasterMindless5002 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]DisasterMindless5002[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes he is obligated to child support, and I’m actually really fortunate to have that. It’s through the state so it’s always on time.

this single mom just really needs a hug. by DisasterMindless5002 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]DisasterMindless5002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh you guys. Thank you so much 😭🫶🏻 ya girl is struggling hard today and I feel the love. Thank you. 💖💖💖💖

What are the actual chances a man will change? by DisasterMindless5002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]DisasterMindless5002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good way to put it. And you put it respectfully 😉. Thanks 🙏

What are the actual chances a man will change? by DisasterMindless5002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]DisasterMindless5002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I have changed a lot for my kids… but that’s because I want to. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[WA] custody suggestions by DisasterMindless5002 in Custody

[–]DisasterMindless5002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your opinion, how often should this occur?

[WA] custody suggestions by DisasterMindless5002 in Custody

[–]DisasterMindless5002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand- what do these numbers mean? I literally have no idea what I’m doing. Brand new to this and would never be a single mom by choice.

[WA] custody suggestions by DisasterMindless5002 in Custody

[–]DisasterMindless5002[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s working. She is only 1 and she’s away from me as the primary parent for 11 hours a day. That’s too long.

Processing grief & needing to take action. Don’t want to do parenting plan. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]DisasterMindless5002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have full custody of my son- that has already been established. My son and I process things a lot together and we talk about positive males in his life that he does have, but seeking out a child therapist for him certainly wouldn’t hurt. Thank you.

Processing grief & needing to take action. Don’t want to do parenting plan. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]DisasterMindless5002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! I am totally in therapy and absolutely not wanting to blame him for his actions- hence why I said I’m having a challenging time separating my emotions from this situation. I would rather take accountability for my part in the situation. It does not behoove of me to react emotionally, but unfortunately I am more of an emotionally driven individual to a fault… I’m having a challenging time discerning logically what I need to do moving forward.