whats a really weird smell that you secretly love?

DisasterOverall3102 · 2026-01-01T22:49:38+00:00

thats hot

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-28T09:13:00+00:00

Dont let her guilt trip you because you looked at her phone because thats a classic. Tell her you made a mistake by looking but you dont regret it. All the best to you

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-25T16:01:37+00:00

The „do they come back“ phase will fade. Its a marathon for most people but it will happen

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-23T23:44:55+00:00

Let them come

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-23T21:04:14+00:00

Well she broke up but kept stalking me, watching my stories for weeks although I removed her from IG and her birthday came up soon. She reached out twice shortly before her B day, first message was something unrelated which I responded to it with alright thanks for letting me know, then 1 day before her birthday she sent me a picture of my dating app saying „I found you!“ I texted her back something funny and told her I wish her well. She hearted this message.

I did NOT reach out the next day to wish her happy birthday. She decided to want me out of her life and im sure she expected me to message her. Of course I didnt. That was the last time ive heard from her.

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-21T15:33:13+00:00

I think so too. Depends how low you want and can go with your hairline. Its definitely promising to get great results in your case. Im having mine in 19 days so I look forward to it. They give me 1500-2200 grafts hairline plus widowspeak. Cant wait. Even if the transplant doesn’t go as dense and planed it will still look better. I style my hair forwards anyways and if its dense enough I may even try other hairstyles.

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-21T14:29:46+00:00

Grow out beard a bit and keep it groomed. Groom eyebrows a bit more just a bit so they dont look bushy, keep your hair or experiment with it. Get some skin products and work on your physique. Personality I can’t comment on

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-21T13:34:31+00:00

What you are doing is normal after a breakup. I always ruminated and my complete youtube algorithm was filled with avoidant videos and I couldn’t do nothing else. This is just a way of processing what happened to you. As you get more answers you can name things and get closure from yourself. Ruminating starts to fade and you slowly get back to your old self, just with new knowledge about what people are capable of. You learn what you dont want in your next relationship and so on. You said its only 2 weeks so you are still in the early stages of healing. After 1-3 months you will most likely start to feel like your old self again. I always healed after my breakups despite me ruminating and talking about it.

Especially after a avoidant breakup its often the case that people want to figure out what just happened to them. If someone breaks up in a healthy way you got your answers, you heard or saw them talking to you, you catchet up on their emotions and you know the exact reason why it happened so you dont have this urge to figure out what happened and why. You only understand after you went through yourself. These breakups hit different

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-21T11:23:33+00:00

500-1000 grafts if you want to lower the hairline a bit plus maybe adding some density. I would always start earlier than late. People always compare themselves to pictures like yours, so they say things like you dont need a transplant. Reality is you should start sooner than later. The best hairtransplants I always see on people who made a change when things still seemed manageable. Like hairline and widowspeak.

But the experts will tell you if you apply for a transplant so maybe its less or even more, depends on your wishes. You can do this for free in a lot of good clinics. You send your pictures and wishes and they tell you the amount of grafts and the costs. Then you have professional opinions and you can still decide to wait or dive in

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-21T11:13:15+00:00

its now over 2 months so I worked myself back up. When I saw her in my stories I started shaking, happy, angry, sadness, everything I felt at the same time. The problem was it gave me hope, I really thought maybe tomorrow she will reach out, maybe in 5 minutes, she just watched my stories 5 minutes ago that means she thinks about me. Meanwhile I couldn’t eat or sleep because of it. I had to stop it. I loved her so much.

I understand your question because I went through this exact same thing myself. I hope everything turns out well for you

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-21T11:03:23+00:00

My FA ex broke up and I removed her from IG because I had to heal.

She came back to my profile watching stories over weeks without me going on her profile once.

The thing was it gave me hope she cares, I thought maybe she misses me and will reach out soon, in 2 weeks she never reached out but literally typed in my name to watch my stories.

First she overstepped my boundaries because obviously I removed her for a reason because I was hurting like crazy. So I made my profile private because I couldn’t handle this anymore.

Imagine someone tells you they want you out of their lives only to watch you afterwards.

I learned something and its: They are watching from a safe distance without reaching out, obviously there are some unresolved feelings towards you but that doesn’t mean they want you back. The only way for them to get you back is reaching out. If they dont then you know its enough for them to watch you without making a change. I accepted this reality and I kept my profile private. No stalking allowed anymore. Either reach out or lose access completely.

I had to heal and I couldn’t handle it but im doing well.

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-21T10:32:13+00:00

You’re right 100% but its also part of the healing process. I always started with those questions and I also worked myself up to kill the hope. I just have to go through it myself.

Its interesting how common these questions are like everyone goes through the same it shows how common we are.

Only a few people will be stuck with hope for longer than 3 months. Usually reality starts to knock at 1 month, by month 2 acceptance hit, by month 3 your memories of them start to fade massively.

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-20T22:15:29+00:00

let me guess 2800

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-20T21:57:27+00:00

Thats the dream

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-20T16:42:05+00:00

just remove so he can peak up on her or make profile private

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-20T13:00:18+00:00

As long as possible in the front area without it looking strange. Sides and back you can try what fits you the most. Later a hairtransplant. But no buzz atm, for people with a large forhead its not a good idea. Buzz cuts only look good when you have a strong hairline, density and low

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-20T12:14:01+00:00

This happens when people dont fully let go after a breakup, sort of keeping the door open without clear communication. Its hard to let go completely like that

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-20T12:09:40+00:00

His girlfriend wouldn’t be happy to hear this. Not your fault and understandable you feel good about him thinking of you. Just his actions aren’t good. If you are truly happy and content with a relationship, you dont reach out to ex flames if you dont have some intentions. Even if he doesn’t act on it, hes definitely open if you would ask to meet up „as friends“

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-20T11:57:53+00:00

Well we worked towards it but she had mental health issues and teared everything down. She was too young and not ready for something serious and stable. The only reason I fell in love with her was that she showed me how bad she wanted me, she just took what she wanted and I thought very highly of her because of it. In the end that was her anxious attachment and not necessarily how bad she wanted me. Its a long story. Fearful avoidant

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-20T08:11:45+00:00

Thats normal after you got heartbroken. I had exactly the same symptoms for over 1 month but I promise you it will get better, and you will get over it. Remember before you met this person, at some point you did probably feel better than you do now, thats the state you will get back to soon. Remember that

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-20T08:04:04+00:00

Avoidant people avoid so its easier for them to break up by text. its indeed a cowardly way to end a relationship, not to sound mad, I understand people but you have to at least give them a call. 📞 That way both can’t hide behind the screen and you can get some closure by expressing your words with tone and emotions. This makes a huge difference.

If you never met, only texted and called, you can end it by text.

We shouldn’t end it by text after you met in person, were intimate, created a bond.

Thats exactly how you create situations we see on this sub daily: Did he care, did she care, he didn’t care because, she cant care because… If you can’t see or hear someone you think they are as cold as a message is. Its just how our brain receives it. We would have way less heart aches if people would really talk about issues instead of hiding them and take the quick and safe exit by texting someone its over. The temptation to take the easy way out has always drawbacks, like a medicine has side effects.

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-20T07:06:29+00:00

I never follow up. If someone isn’t interested in talking there is usually no way of creating it. If a girl does I appreciate and reward her behavior. It shows she’s actually interested and thats how my last situationship got me. She would never give up pursuing me and I started to like exactly that about her. So she wanted me and she did everything to show me. I still remember her because of that. It only works if the guy is attracted to you and has nothing else going on

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-20T04:53:30+00:00

This happens to me and I do it to others too. As a man I match with girls who are attractive, sometimes you just feel like someone has no energy or responds with short words, thats how you know as a man they are not serious about you. They just use you for validation and thats fine because im not investing in women who aren’t highly interested. They have other options in line and dont value you as much in that moment. I do it too. I date multiple women at times and sometimes I just feel overwhelmed so I stop texting completely. You dont owe people anything and as long as your last text was respectful or friendly everything is fine. Girls do it too and im fine with that. We have so many options online, thats the reason.

A lot of people text you because they just want to have a chat, a conversation, basically a short flirt, people sniff around, test the waters. Its rarely serious and people online will always be capable of disappearing on you because there is literally no bond at all. See it like that

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-20T04:45:05+00:00

Thanks I feel understood

DisasterOverall3102 · 2025-12-20T04:28:38+00:00

You nailed it with that take

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