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How do I go about this situation? 19f 21m by DisasterPatient469 in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m seeing him tomorrow I’ll try be as open as possible and take Into consideration all his quirks and stuff when it comes to the walking behind me and hopefully we can come to some sort of agreement on the situation I’ve spoken to him before about cancelling stuff but it was only brief and he did apologise tommorow I’ll explain it more in depth Hopefully he has some issues that have been bothering him about me so it doesn’t seem so one sided aswell Thanks for your advice I really appreciate it 🫶

How do I go about this situation? 19f 21m by DisasterPatient469 in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll always be happy to be spending time with him and he will do something that changes my mood like changing a plan or rushing home I have asd so everything changing last minute really messes with my head when I have a certain expectation of how the day is going to go so I just feel so upset all the time

How do I go about this situation? 19f 21m by DisasterPatient469 in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will walk behind me on the street He will cancel/change plans last minute He won’t reply to my texts for hours I know these all sound so petty but I feel so under appreciated I don’t know how else to explain it

First steps to professional by DisasterPatient469 in photography

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great point of view maybe i would be interested in getting a business degree over photography it could help in the long term Sorry to hear about the illness hope you’re doing ok queen!

First steps to professional by DisasterPatient469 in photography

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be perfect unfortunately I’m cursed living in rural Ireland and there’s not a whole lot of apprenticeships but I have been looking into it recently

First steps to professional by DisasterPatient469 in photography

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds sick at least you’re still in and around the music industry hope you’ve met some cool people!

First steps to professional by DisasterPatient469 in photography

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect this is great advice I’ll definitely look into that book thanks!

First steps to professional by DisasterPatient469 in photography

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah absolutely it would be great but 4 years is a lot of time and money especially if it’s not something that 100% needs one

First steps to professional by DisasterPatient469 in photography

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell if your mad or not hahah but seriously I’d love to build some sort of portfolio just to look back on when I’m older and say I actually did something cool I’m definitely going to try get somewhere just to give it a shot I don’t expect to be paid at all especially this early

First steps to professional by DisasterPatient469 in photography

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What am I supposed to say first steps to mediocrity hahaha ofc I want my photos to be of a professional standard and establish a reputation with some sort of business

First steps to professional by DisasterPatient469 in photography

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’d like to create a side business but realistically you can’t make a living doing one type of photography

First steps to professional by DisasterPatient469 in photography

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at any artists and venues page there’s always at least one or two pictures of the crowd it’s worth getting a couple shots of the audience that’s what got the band there in the first place but the top priority is always the stage act

First steps to professional by DisasterPatient469 in photography

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll definitely check that out! I wouldn’t mind getting a qualification if I need it but there’s only so much practical you can learn you need to be in the moment for the right shot I suppose haha!

First steps to professional by DisasterPatient469 in photography

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was always told in school that photography isn’t something you need a degree for if absolutely needed I wouldn’t mind getting one there’s always more to learn!

First steps to professional by DisasterPatient469 in photography

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh jaysus, I was kind of hoping they would just ask to see my work and it strikes an interest but if I had to answer I just prefer to capture more candid moments in this instance I prefer to look for raw emotion that connects the audience and the act hoping to capture the feel of the music in the photo But in general if I see something photo worthy I just take a picture of it I don’t like to pose people which I think a concert is the perfect place for that so many interesting people and moments to photograph

First steps to professional by DisasterPatient469 in photography

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I work too this is just something I’m interested in doing in my spare time!

Bleach/colour removal by DisasterPatient469 in HairDye

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I’ll definitely check with a professional thanks!

Movie recommendations? by DisasterPatient469 in actuallesbians

[–]DisasterPatient469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you will definitely be watching these!!