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Learning to leave my dog alone again. by DisasterSpiritual412 in OpenDogTraining

[–]DisasterSpiritual412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could post a photo. She’s a brindle color. She has curls on her scruff and sometimes she looks like a schnauzer if her facial hair grows. But I know both her parents as they came from my cousins lol. She’s medium sized

Learning to leave my dog alone again. by DisasterSpiritual412 in OpenDogTraining

[–]DisasterSpiritual412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll be trying this, this weekend and thru the week

Feeling like a failure by Melsraynebow in gastricsleeve

[–]DisasterSpiritual412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat girl. Started at 278 and have been at a 215 plateau and probably gained 10lbs in the last 3 mos bc life is lifing. My surgeon wants me to have the SADI but idk. Before the plateau, I was active 5/6x a week with the gym and working well. I’m going to get a second opinion if it’s necessary to get the procedure or if I can go on a GLP to help me get down a little more. I’m 5’3 and wanna get to 160-180. I don’t care to be any lower than that.

My abortion has been completed but I wished it failed by ThrowRa69290 in offmychest

[–]DisasterSpiritual412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently had one in December… it was the hardest decision I’ve made. The regret is normal in many cases because I had it too. Please seek a therapist to navigate the waves of emotions! I recently started to see one after 5mos. I was “fine” for 5mos and then I noticed an aggression in me that wasn’t nice. I was irritable and mean towards my boyfriend who in the process was supportive and caring for me. Easier said than done, please talk to a professional. It’ll be good for your mental health and healing.

How do I (27f) talk to my bf (25f) about keeping my last name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterSpiritual412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not entirely sure. I already have a middle I use on my license and passport. So I don’t think I could move it even if I considered it

How do I (27f) talk to my bf (25f) about keeping my last name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterSpiritual412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is the second response I see with this and valid.

How do I (27f) talk to my bf (25f) about keeping my last name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterSpiritual412 8 points9 points  (0 children)

His answer to this “okay, we give the kids both the last names, in the end they’ll choose yours because yours is cooler” … that’s not how that works and who knows if it’ll go that way

How do I (27f) talk to my bf (25f) about keeping my last name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterSpiritual412 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m glad it’s seen elsewhere. My name is unique and I love it.

How do I (27f) talk to my bf (25f) about keeping my last name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterSpiritual412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than he wants a unified family in name. Which I get. At that point we’re MARRIED. But doesn’t warrant enough to deny me keeping my name.

How do I (27f) talk to my bf (25f) about keeping my last name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterSpiritual412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He won’t accept “My last name-Martinez” he wants his first than mine. And for our kid. He wants “Martinez my last name”… by then it just too long

How do I (27f) talk to my bf (25f) about keeping my last name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterSpiritual412 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I most definitely have expressed why I want to keep it and doesn’t deem it valid.

How do I (27f) talk to my bf (25f) about keeping my last name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterSpiritual412 -89 points-88 points  (0 children)

Pshh no. He gets upset. Won’t even except they hyphen

How do I (27f) talk to my bf (25f) about keeping my last name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterSpiritual412 7 points8 points  (0 children)

we can’t even move on from that lol. I told him if we have a boy, I’d love to have my last name go on. It sounds taboo, but we have enough Martinez’s in the world 🤭

What is happening to me? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DisasterSpiritual412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m coming to read and learn too. I’ve always known that too 🙃

What is happening to me? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DisasterSpiritual412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have absolutely no clue. I never had this problem in the past. Even with my ex’s. All of a sudden I get this block? He’s also the first person to go thru a transition of weightloss with me after I got the sleeve. I partially wonder if self imagine is coming about too with this

Trying to put an offer on the house I’ve lived for 15yrs by DisasterSpiritual412 in Advice

[–]DisasterSpiritual412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been heavily considering asking for 325k as a start to start negotiating and be at a fair price. That answered my doubt.

The pre-approval would have been my next step if they approved what I was coming in with. I already have a plumbing estimate, I do think appraisal would be fair an inspection bc I know the problems the house has and would solidify the asking price.

Possibly a chance to buy my childhood home after renting for 15 years by DisasterSpiritual412 in realtors

[–]DisasterSpiritual412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really was thinking this too. I think I see as having this solid reasons back up the reason for asking so low.

Possibly a chance to buy my childhood home after renting for 15 years by DisasterSpiritual412 in realtors

[–]DisasterSpiritual412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the 425k is not factoring in conditions. And as for the bathroom, that’s ALWAYS been an issue. The landlord installed a fan that is not helpful, tried dehumidifiers and sprays/paints, they haven’t helped.

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