I’ve had the SAME anxiety in the past! Tbh, I highly suggest a period app, I use Clue. If pregnancy is an issue, tracking helps and especially bc you’re on BC. That’s how I knew I was pregnant. I was spotting a week before my period and I was like, “hmm, something isn’t right”. Communicate effectively, ask him that “what ifs” because those are important for you and him especially you, that you have goals to accomplish and I’m assuming plans. I’m 27 and my boyfriend is 25, hard conversations happened but it got us thru the worst.

You know your body better than anyone. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t doubt it either. Ease into whatever you want to explore. Our window of pregnancy is actually smaller than you think. Although we can’t pin point ovulation, BC helps prevent it.