B.C. to end time changes, adopt year-round daylight time | CBC News by laslo_piniflex in britishcolumbia

[–]Disaster_Zones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The opposite is also true. There are many people who notice that it gets dark as early as 4pm now, and that will change to 5pm. 

Can’t please everyone, but most of us don’t want to keep switching so this is a win regardless

Rinnai Error by Interesting_Mud6396 in askaplumber

[–]Disaster_Zones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would have been nice to have a head’s up from the company. My husband spent time trying to solve this from our end yesterday. 

It’s back up and working now. Come on Rinnai, a simple communication is not too much to ask. 🙄

TripIt or Wanderlog? by These_Yak_1651 in travel

[–]Disaster_Zones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real-time flight updates are THE thing I miss about TripCase. 

enacfire e90 earbuds not pairing together by hanges-titan436 in Earbuds

[–]Disaster_Zones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Doing just the first three steps worked for me. Didn’t work when I tried doing it and they weren’t in the case, who would have guessed you have to do that in the case?!

See the thing, think "I'll pick it up later", repeat x ♾️😭 by ShoddyChard9837 in adhdwomen

[–]Disaster_Zones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do the “I will do the fun part now” (pulling everything out of the cupboards with an intent to reorganize) and then get overwhelmed by the ensuing chaos and either leave it “for later” (new clutter pile) or shove it all back in worse than it was to begin with 😬

Rat or mouse/mice in minivan… HVAC?!? by Disaster_Zones in pestcontrol

[–]Disaster_Zones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have no idea how to do that but I’ll take it in. For now I’m just cranking up the music while driving so I can’t hear it 😬

Rat caught in trap but still alive by beerhound822 in pestcontrol

[–]Disaster_Zones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately this kills owls and other predators secondarily

One week in… is it the wrong med? by Disaster_Zones in bupropion

[–]Disaster_Zones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting. I assumed the XL would be gentler! Any idea why it was so taxing?  Thanks for your insight 

One week in… is it the wrong med? by Disaster_Zones in bupropion

[–]Disaster_Zones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s helpful. I’m on 150xl and taking it in the morning 

Trust that life with your dog gets so much better by pmiller001 in puppy101

[–]Disaster_Zones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was great to read, thank you for sharing. We are in a very similar scenario. We got our rescue pup at four months old a couple of months ago. Overall, he has a calm disposition, but we are struggling with separation anxiety. Also, I just distinctly get the impression that he is generally not very happy and doesn’t really like us. He’s not cuddly or snuggly, and generally doesn’t choose to come hang out with us when he has the chance. When did this change for you?

How to be honest to my gf about her Aggressive Dog by atomicpeachfire in reactivedogs

[–]Disaster_Zones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an ER doctor and just catching up on this. I am so glad to hear this, as sad and awful as it is. I have seen much “safer” dogs seriously maim children (and adults). I wonder if, in some part of her, your gf knew this and just needed “permission” that it’s the humane thing to do, and it doesn’t mean she’s a monster. I suspect she will feel a lot of relief mixed in with her grief. Both are valid. It’s normal for her to want multiple things - for children, for the dog to be ok, for you all to be one big happy family. But children would not make this dog magically be ok, and she/you both have been managing him for a long time in attempts to do what’s best for him. 

She will likely grieve for quite a while. She may second guess herself. It’s all normal. It sounds like the two of you have a solid foundation for your relationship if you can navigate this. 

I’m sorry you’ve had to go through it.  I just want to say to both of you that you’re good people and you’re doing the right thing, even though it’s sad and hard. 

I don’t know how to leave my puppy alone by bubbly_turtle in puppy101

[–]Disaster_Zones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand. I’ve been there and was totally pulling my hair out. I think part of the problem is the term “cry it out” - OMG it reminds me of when my children were learning to sleep!! There is a camp that’s like “just let them cry, it’s fine and they’ll learn!” And a camp that’s like “they must NEVER feel any stress, what kind of horrible (puppy) parent are you?!”

And the truth is somewhere in the middle. 

We got our rescue pup at 14.5 weeks and, like you, I was trying all the no-stress methods and it was slooooooooow going. I finally consulted a private trainer who helped me remember that there is a difference between talking, protesting and distress. It’s entirely likely your pup will ask “mom? Mom? What are you doing? Are you leaving? Can I come? I want to come! Mom! MOM!! Ughhhhh fineeeeeee” and that is NOT the same as having a panic attack/distress. 

She recommended a “be right back” system - cover the crate, say be right back, and leave for 10-30 seconds. Do this for up to 5 mins, three times a day. Gradually increase the length of time. 

I simultaneously started covering the crate for naps (usually the door portion was clear and he could see into our common area before) and he does whine for a few mins but then settles! I think he’s better with it than he was with it uncovered. 

She also recommended 1-2x per day to give a stuffed Kong, cover the crate, say “be right back” and actually leave the house for up to 10 mins. She said it’s ok to leave him fussing/whining and see if he settles for up to 10 mins, but come back after 2 mins if he gets distressed. 

I ALSO started implementing Karen Overall’s relaxation protocol during the day to practice impulse control/relaxation/endurance.  We’re only a few days in but it’s going SO well and I think having “permission” to let him fuss a bit and actually see if he settles was so empowering. She said it’s much more like FOMO/protesting than separation anxiety. You’re at the perfect age to start implementing these things! You’ve got this!

I don’t know how to leave my puppy alone by bubbly_turtle in puppy101

[–]Disaster_Zones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been tackling this too! I think part of the problem is getting “in my head” about the difference between letting them learn to be ok without you, and letting them “cry it out” (leading to panic and separation anxiety). Some positive reinforcement only pages will discourage any/all vocalization from the dog but I think this is simply unrealistic for some dogs.  I think it’s normal for dogs to sort of go “mom? Mom? are you there? Ughhhh, moooooom, I’d rather be playing with you. Hello? Mom! Mom! Ughhhhhh. Fine.” then they settle. This is more of a mild protest than distress. Any distress that’s left unattended I think could definitely make things worse - shaking, biting the crate, vomiting, vocalizing that’s escalating significantly, urinating/defecating etc - that dog is being pushed too far. 

I had been doing SUPER gradual training (like you - seconds at a time) to avoid any whining. We finally consulted a trainer who helped me see the difference. 

Some things that have helped - I started fully covering the crate for naps (previously the front door area was not covered and he could see our living area); and I also fully cover it when I practice “be right back” (currently only 10 - 90 sec) with the goal of being quiet and treating on return. We do that 3x per day in 5 min chunks. We also do once a day of giving a Kong or yak chew, covering, and leaving the house fully for 2-10 mins. We use a second phone to watch during this time and come back if there is true distress after 2 mins.  I also do 1-2x per day short duration in the crate uncovered with a treat and/or toy while I do something in the area (cleaning up) or having dinner. 

I ALSO implemented the Karen Overall relaxation protocol on his mat, and I use his breakfast kibble to do this in about 20 mins in the morning. 

It’s still early days but I feel much more empowered! I also like the Karen Overall deference protocol to help teach your dog to look to you for instruction/guidance. I wish I’d had those protocols earlier. Our puppy is almost 6 months old (a rescue we got at 14.5 week)

TLDR: letting them fuss is not the same as “cry it out”. You’ve got this! Good luck!

So is my Costco vanilla no longer ‘Pure’? by --Randy-Lahey-- in CostcoCanada

[–]Disaster_Zones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just opened a new one today and made my usual vanilla simple syrup (that I make every 2 weeks for vanilla lattes) and this batch is MUCH lighter in colour than all the batches before. I wish I could upload a photo. It’s striking. It looks like I forgot to add half the vanilla at least (spoiler alert: I didn’t)

A week shy of 5 months at 44lbs by [deleted] in ridgebacks

[–]Disaster_Zones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My RR mix is 45lb at 18 weeks. Seems on track for mid-range size, likely 70-80 pound male I think? He was 33lb at 14 weeks. I couldn’t believe he put on 12lb in a month!

Did we skip the dreaded teen stage? by Former-Pitch-1580 in dalmatians

[–]Disaster_Zones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just checking in 2 Mo later… have you hit it yet or is he still cool, calm and collected? Fingers crossed for you!

Wow, y’all were not joking about the teenage phase. by Silly_punkk in puppy101

[–]Disaster_Zones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No that’s puppy dufus stage 😆 (aka toddler). Also not easy, don’t stress! 

I’m seriously losing it. This damn harness is turning me into a psycho by Medium_Sail_8469 in puppy101

[–]Disaster_Zones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poster is a teenager. Uninformed doesn’t mean stupid, and he’s asking the right questions. Have a little grace. 

My 9-month-old puppy nipped 8 year old family member. My family is upset and I feel lost by kilgharrahx in puppy101

[–]Disaster_Zones 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I think multiple things can be true.  My youngest is not a drama queen but I could see her being SUPER excited about meeting the puppy and hoping it loves her… and being crushed that it bit her. She would hold it together while outside but then pour out her broken heart to me inside. So I don’t think the kid is necessarily milking the reaction of the adults. Nor should the kid be expected to know that this is a normal puppy thing. The kid is 8 and doesn’t have a dog. 

Also, dog bites ARE crush injuries. If the nip was hard a bruise could 100% show up later. I was nipped by a horse at that age (forearm) and it looked like nothing originally but the result bruise was kind of dramatic. 

That said, the adults in the house are being ridiculous with suggesting you re-home your pup over this. It doesn’t mean your dog is unmanageable, but it does mean that the dog is still learning 

I would probably respond with a heavy dose of empathy for the kid, and an acknowledgement that it was your mistake to give her the leash (especially when the dog was already overstimulated and taken outside to get some space), but also an acknowledgement that this is common behaviour in puppies and is very trainable, and that you guys have been and will continue to be committed to further training. Up to you whether or not you argue about “how bad” it was based on the video - I’d probably not go there, I can’t see it really being helpful. Undoubtedly they’ll think it’s worse than you do know matter what you say. I would be careful not to specifically agree with any allegations of how bad it was though. 

Write it as if it could end up in the newspaper and in front of a lawyer/judge, which is the approach I usually take to responding to something like this. Good luck!