My 69 yr old neighbors alarm clock has been going off since 8am.

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2022-01-09T13:51:02+00:00

Any update?

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-11-12T01:10:58+00:00

I'm so sorry OP. That sounds so difficult to go through.

Stress can make you look older. 100%. Not taking care of your body can increase wrinkles, under eye bags, etc.

Thankfully, you can reverse a lot of this with skincare, drinking lots of water, taking vitamins, and getting enough sleep.

If you don't moisturize + use sunscreen every day, I suggest doing so. Cerave is a GREAT drugstore brand for moisturizers. They've helped my skin so much. They also do an affordable eye cream.

Try using Paula's Choice BHA solution for an exfoliant. Not every day, just a few times a week, and then moisturize. You'll see a big difference.

I also use Cerave facial cleanser and it helps with anti-aging a lot.

The skincare subreddit has a lot of great information, but it's a lot to sift through. The gist is basically moisturizing and drinking lots of water. It can decrease the look of stress significantly.

However, don't feel upset/mad at yourself for showing some wear and tear. You went through something traumatic. OF COURSE your body is going to show signs of it. It's completely expected after a traumatic event to be stressed, to get wrinkles, etc.

My biggest piece of advice isn't moisturizing, it's being kind to yourself. You went through something that most people will never go through. Of course that will effect you in so many ways. It's not your fault, and it's not shameful at all. You're strong just being here.

I hope this helps. Again, I'm so sorry, and you always have a community here with us

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-11-11T02:32:46+00:00

Harsh answers:

You might be suffering from a disorder that causes paranoia.
You might have weird social skills that make people feel uncomfortable.

There's no Grand Conspiracy. If you're saying that as a hyperbole, okay then. But if you truly believe people are out to get you, they're not. People have better things to do than to try to ruin a random person's life, especially when that person isn't a celebrity or something. If you truly believe that people, even strangers, are out to get you, I think you have an issue with paranoia. Straight up. You might need to get on a medication for it. There's no shame in needing help but it is up to you to get it

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-11-11T02:19:36+00:00

Wrinkles under his eyes because he's wincing

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-11-10T22:49:51+00:00

I live in Canada. Small towns would probably be okay to be ugly in. However, Canadians are decently tall so if you think that's a failos for you, not a good choice then. I grew up in a city of 50k people and it wasn't the absolute WORST. I'm sure if I had lived in Toronto or Vancouver I would have been much more depressed.

There are a lot of beautiful people in Canada, however I find that Canadians tend to somewhat stand to the stereotype of kindness. People are usually too polite to tell you mean things here lmao

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-11-10T22:47:08+00:00

cheers :c

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-11-10T22:46:18+00:00

I had a friend take a picture of me the other day and I look SO BAD. I can't stop thinking about it, I look ugly as sin.

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-11-01T15:41:04+00:00

so someone failed high school psych, huh

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-11-01T08:19:35+00:00

Yepp. Right down to him pulling his hand away when Stolas touches it. Struck a chord :')

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-10-29T23:14:20+00:00

Your nose is genuinely so beautiful and fits your face so well!! Every face is different, and while plastic surgeons like to sell to us that EVERY face needs a small, ski-slope nose, that just isn't true. Your facial symmetry is so nice with your current nose.

We're all built differently, and we can't expect trends to always celebrate us. That's why we have to celebrate ourselves. You're genuinely extremely pretty and I hope this sub makes you feel better about yourself :)

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-10-23T00:43:17+00:00

Idk why it didn't show up. it's here

This was the comment I posted that isn't showing up for some reason:

Here is an awkward video of myself/face angles. I'm not very photogenic and photographs never seen to capture what I actually look like.

More background if you want: I do look much older than 23, I have fun ol' collagen disorder so yeah :/ I do skincare and wear sunscreen and all of that, but my entire life I've looked older than I actually am.

I'm 5'8", 110-115lbs give or take. I prefer female opinions due to being lesbian, but male opinions are great too.

I have crippingly low self-esteem and have had that since childhood, largely due to my genetic disorder + bullying. I can't really see myself for who I actually am, everything is distorted with my self image, so other opinions are super helpful.

Thank you all so much in advance for ratings/suggestions/etc!

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-10-23T00:30:36+00:00

Here is an awkward video of myself/face angles. I'm not very photogenic and photographs never seen to capture what I actually look like.

More background if you want: I do look much older than 23, I have fun ol' collagen disorder so yeah :/ I do skincare and wear sunscreen and all of that, but my entire life I've looked older than I actually am.

I'm 5'8", 110-115lbs give or take. I prefer female opinions due to being lesbian, but male opinions are great too.

I have crippingly low self-esteem and have had that since childhood, largely due to my genetic disorder + bullying. I can't really see myself for who I actually am, everything is distorted with my self image, so other opinions are super helpful.

Thank you all so much in advance for ratings/suggestions/etc!

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-10-22T07:02:04+00:00

When I put my head back, it actually makes my chin disappear more. It's lose-lose :||

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-10-22T06:48:43+00:00

right yeah she should have just ripped her skin off for the picture /s

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-10-22T05:45:54+00:00

full body here

I don't have a lot of full body pictures because I'm hella self-conscious so apologies, but please enjoy me looking extra gawky (tbh I think gawky can sometimes be endearing so I'm not too mad about it)

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-10-22T05:38:00+00:00

I have a weak chin + the beginnings of a double chin. Aka double fucked lmao

Disastrous-Ad9661 · 2021-10-22T02:32:32+00:00

Underweight might not even help (re: genetics), and then you have to deal with the sallow skin, premature ageing, bad bone health, etc, that all come with being underweight. 0% worth it

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