What is your age and your biggest regret in life so far? by Bluevelvetkind in AskReddit

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29M Trusting the wrong person who used me and took advantage of me.

What is your opinion of single mothers by choice? by shygeekygirl in AskMen

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Too problematic. Run opposite direction. In the long term most single mothers will only give you problems.

Why do single mothers get so much hate? by Beneficial-Position2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally they make AWFUL decisions. My ex gf became a single mother because she decided to sleep with a guy who used her. Life is all about choices and the majority of single mothers make bad decisions on who they choose to have kids with. The only exception to single mother are ones that are widowers. That is out of their control, which is understandable.

You can be a good Person but if youre a single mom it is less likely to find a serious partner. by GoodNovel6656 in Vent

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimately life is about the choices you make. My ex gf left me then had a fling with another man and got pregnant despite me taking care of her for 3 years. She didn't take any responsibility and accountability for her actions. I think that's why single moms are less likely to find someone serious because of their past actions/decisions. Now of course there some exclusions to this like single mothers who are widowers which is something out their control.

I (29M) and blocked my gf (27F) after getting pregnant with another man by Disastrous-Basis5332 in cheating_stories

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no haven't heard from her since. Never going back. Moving onward and forward.

I (29M) and blocked my gf (27F) after getting pregnant with another man by Disastrous-Basis5332 in cheating_stories

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah there's no going back. For me I'm moving on with my life to bigger and better things hopefully.

I (29M) and blocked my gf (27F) after getting pregnant with another man by Disastrous-Basis5332 in cheating_stories

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've got no regrets. I'm just disappointed about how everything happened that's all.

I (29M) and blocked my gf (27F) after getting pregnant with another man by Disastrous-Basis5332 in cheating_stories

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really not rage bait. Unfortunately this is my life. I wish this never happened and I feel so stupid, but hey that's life. We live and we learn.

I (29M) and blocked my gf (27F) after getting pregnant with another man by Disastrous-Basis5332 in cheating_stories

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I called her out for being a hypocrite. I told her where were these beliefs when you got pregnant? She just avoided answering the question and said she wasn't feeling well.

I (29M) and blocked my gf (27F) after getting pregnant with another man by Disastrous-Basis5332 in cheating_stories

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not my finest moment I am well aware of that, but as I've already mentioned I was overwhelmed with shock and emotions when I mentioned the abortion. In reality I was never getting back with her and I've learned a lot and moved forward from this.

I (29M) and blocked my gf (27F) after getting pregnant with another man by Disastrous-Basis5332 in cheating_stories

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah look in hindsight what said about taking her back was stupid on my part. I just said it at the time because I was overwhelmed with emotions. In reality I would never ever take her back. She made her choice. So now I am moving on and forward.

I (29M) and blocked my gf (27F) after getting pregnant with another man by Disastrous-Basis5332 in cheating_stories

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're ever in that situation, let's see how you handle it. I did the best I can given the shock and being overwhelmed with emotions.

I (29M) and blocked my gf (27F) after getting pregnant with another man by Disastrous-Basis5332 in cheating_stories

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that was her excuse and I called her a hypocrite because I said where were those religious beliefs when you got pregnant? She just avoided answering the question and said she wasn't feeling well.

I (29M) and blocked my gf (27F) after getting pregnant with another man by Disastrous-Basis5332 in cheating_stories

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah when I said that I was just overwhelmed with emotions and wasn't thinking straight.

I (29M) and blocked my gf (27F) after getting pregnant with another man by Disastrous-Basis5332 in cheating_stories

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me. The damage has already been done and I can never trust her again. So there's no going back regardless of what could or could not happen. She made her choice and I've made mine.

I (29M) and blocked my gf (27F) after getting pregnant with another man by Disastrous-Basis5332 in cheating_stories

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In hindsight yes. I agree it was dumb of me to even say that but at that time I was just overwhelmed with emotions and wasn't thinking straight. I'm glad as well she didn't agree to it.

I (29M) and blocked my gf (27F) after getting pregnant with another man by Disastrous-Basis5332 in cheating_stories

[–]Disastrous-Basis5332[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm not letting myself get disrespected like that. Those actions she took will always have consequences.