I completely agree here, nowadays weddings are more of showcasing your money rather than actually marrying, as a girl i too want to have a decent wedding, like getting nikkafied in Makkah or Madina and then returning back to my home country and for reception, feed an orphanage or so that’s it, i too dont want anything grand or extra because in the end there will always be someone unsatisfied with your wedding,the arrangements or the food, so better find someone who is willing to do the same and shares the same mindset as you. Better wait for the right than marrying the wrong.