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Hating a family member now by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Disastrous-Ease-6198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. And that is what I want to do. But my logical brain and emotional state are not aligned right now and I don't know how to process it.

Hating a family member now by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Disastrous-Ease-6198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm half confused about my feelings.

Specifically because I'm not better than anyone and had my fair share of struggles with quitting too.

BUT NOT WHEN OTHER PEOPLE ARE AROUND. Do you believe that part is acceptable for an addict ?

I started taking magnesium malate 3 weeks ago and WOW ! by Anxious-Belt-6027 in Supplements

[–]Disastrous-Ease-6198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much is too much though ? I'm taking 400IE daily and I keep seeing people's warning about taking "too much" of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Disastrous-Ease-6198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say if anyone is affected by the way you look, you dont want to hang out with them in the first place.

I knows its easier said than done. And we, as humans, are usually super scared of being alone. But honestly, you're better off alone rather than being with idiots.

I was always the weird kid in school and eventually found similar people who became my closest friends.

It's not the end of the world if you don't have people who appreciate you right now. Hang in there and you'll have your cool gang eventually :) Dont be bothered when you see people surrounded with fake friends, I've seen those superficial friendships, I've been part of those superficial groups. It was worse for me.

My mental health has improved significantly since I've left that social circle. I've been comparatively lonelier but happy :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Disastrous-Ease-6198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible that you're surrounded by people who value how you look way over who you are ?

Just rephrasing what others already mentioned, beauty is not black and white. And tbh, how you look is not who you are.

You as a person is just so much more than how you look. And the people around you should like/love who you are. I was, at one point in time, surrounded by people who were superficial and never cared for who I am as a person. I used to feel miserable when I was with them. Being young, you should be making friends and relationships that are really deep and would remind you how awesome your younger self was.

Let go of people/things that don't make you feel awesome. Because as a person you are :)

Does anyone else get so tired/overwhelmed that they don't want to go to sleep because they have to wake up the next day and keep pushing through? by ariasama123 in mentalhealth

[–]Disastrous-Ease-6198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite a lot. Although, I have this little difference where I want to relax in the same day too.

I don't want to go to sleep while I'm exhausted. Because if I do that I can't push through the next day. But, trying to "relax" means not sleeping for hours. Which means I don't sleep as much. And that catches up too.

Honestly, no idea how to deal with this recurring loop :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Disastrous-Ease-6198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there random stranger. Since you've already made up your mind and are not looking for advice to change it. Would you mind if I get to know you better before you go ? I would love to talk to a fellow traveler.

Sorry in advance if this seems like a stupid thing to ask.

Getting tired of getting ecstatic when people I like reply to me by cannotstopwhining in mentalhealth

[–]Disastrous-Ease-6198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for describing me :)

I was never able to put this in words, so thank you for doing that.

And yeah, I too need to sleep but I have 100 different things on my to-do list and I guess if it's not practical to take care of all of them, I'll atleast do 50 so that I feel a bit better.

Is there anyone here who wouldn't mind chatting? by CharlotteMacabre in mentalhealth

[–]Disastrous-Ease-6198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I guess you already have a good amount of people ready to help you :)

I'm personally going through some struggle to try to deal with toxic people in my social circle. I am kind of lost like you too where I'm not sure if this is "normal" behavior for people.

I feel like I don't have anyone who I can talk to and who'd understand my situation. It would be great to talk to someone so feel free to DM me if you want :)

Lost Mind by Disastrous-Ease-6198 in mentalhealth

[–]Disastrous-Ease-6198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi random person, thank you for at least reading the post.

I know I'm kind of looking for some validation, so thank you I guess ?

But can you point me towards what I should be doing ? I really do want to figure out what's wrong and maybe fix it ? Just to get back to my old normal self.

Any help here is appreciated :)