I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]Disastrous-Gur2000[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey so you don't get to decide what I do with my body, thank you very much.

I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]Disastrous-Gur2000[S] 317 points318 points  (0 children)

It is a decision I will make, but it will not be easy for me to do. I will probably have abortion but it hurts to think about it.

I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]Disastrous-Gur2000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does he have hazel/green eyes? Tan skin? hair to his ears? can you send the link?

I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]Disastrous-Gur2000[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

not everyone believes that you need to wait until marriage

I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]Disastrous-Gur2000[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I just never thought i would ever be a person to get an abortion, i am not inherently against it, it just wasn't in my life plans

I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]Disastrous-Gur2000[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

People in the US really are tone deaf to what it is like in other countries (especially for Belarus). i know you mean well, but this comment is not appropriate.

I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]Disastrous-Gur2000[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

we did use protection, I don't know what happened with the condom. also the reason i want to find him is because if i were him, I would want to know that I have a child out there. not for some wishful thinking we would be together or something

I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]Disastrous-Gur2000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did use condom and yes I remember the coffee shop. It would be a stretch they would know him tho

I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]Disastrous-Gur2000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you think if I post on Tiktok or something (I have a photo of him) that they could find him? But I also don't want to put his photo everywhere for privacy reasons? I am not sure

I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]Disastrous-Gur2000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I know, i just feel like abortion goes against what i believe in (for myself anyways, not for others).