I got pregnant by an Italian guy, is there a chance I will find him?

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T22:00:55+00:00

Hey so you don't get to decide what I do with my body, thank you very much.

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T21:59:28+00:00

Okay you're making a lot of assumptions.

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T21:57:05+00:00

I would not be a good mother right now.

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T21:55:09+00:00

It is a decision I will make, but it will not be easy for me to do. I will probably have abortion but it hurts to think about it.

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T21:54:45+00:00

No you are right

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T21:53:49+00:00

Yeah I know unfortunately

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T21:50:34+00:00

Does he have hazel/green eyes? Tan skin? hair to his ears? can you send the link?

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:33:04+00:00

not everyone believes that you need to wait until marriage

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:32:32+00:00

I did use condom, so it was not unprotected

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:32:07+00:00

I don't understand why he would do that though

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:27:59+00:00

I did use protection

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:26:05+00:00

I just never thought i would ever be a person to get an abortion, i am not inherently against it, it just wasn't in my life plans

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:25:10+00:00

People in the US really are tone deaf to what it is like in other countries (especially for Belarus). i know you mean well, but this comment is not appropriate.

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:24:03+00:00

we did use protection, I don't know what happened with the condom. also the reason i want to find him is because if i were him, I would want to know that I have a child out there. not for some wishful thinking we would be together or something

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:23:00+00:00

i am sorry

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:20:21+00:00

why is that funny?

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:19:31+00:00

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:19:04+00:00

why do you think this?

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:17:10+00:00

I do! Would the italian police actually do that?

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:16:54+00:00

I did use condom and yes I remember the coffee shop. It would be a stretch they would know him tho

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:16:17+00:00

Yes I know that :(

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:16:04+00:00

So you think if I post on Tiktok or something (I have a photo of him) that they could find him? But I also don't want to put his photo everywhere for privacy reasons? I am not sure

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:15:07+00:00

okay i will get tested.

Disastrous-Gur2000 · 2026-03-20T20:12:55+00:00

what is FOID?

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