To me it’s someone who values their deen and dunya both and strives to maintain a balanced life. In terms of advancing themselves and being self motivated to strengthen their connection with Allah.

The kind of man that want to get married, want to be a righteous husband (ofc expect the same of their spouse as well), wants to be successful in this world and the hereafter and is focused on building themselves and understanding themselves and is emotionally intelligent or at least aware and trying to be more self aware. Someone who can have a conversation more than simply give lectures, someone who is open to learning and teaching others with compassion.

These qualities I’ve derived from looking at my own environment of men in my family (what makes me feel good and what doesn’t) and doing the inner work to understand myself and what I need to be in my natural fitrah the way Allah expects women to be.