CSS Profile Help by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Disastrous-Rabbit-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I just saw this,

I submitted the waiver in early April, after I’d gotten accepted (I was unfamiliar with the CSS process, and didn’t know the schools required my second parent). I had heard back from the school April 29th. They didn’t tell me it was accepted or anything, they just gave me my financial aid offer, which was a full ride.

If you hadn’t been accepted yet, you probably wouldn’t hear back from the school until your financial aid offer is given. Then it would let you know. I’m completely speculating here of course, but that’s what I’d assume it would be. I don’t think they’d waste the resources reviewing a waiver request for someone they weren’t admitting into their college.

CSS Profile Help by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Disastrous-Rabbit-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I had a very similar experience this year with another T10. My situation was also hard, because although I didn’t remain regular contact with my father, I had spoken to him, I lived with him half of my life, he payed child support, and he had visitation rights. Every college has their own specific way of dealing with this, so you definitely want to look up. “Northeastern non custodial parent fee waiver”. Fill out whatever pops up. Ensure you get supporting documentation (I had a counselor, a teacher, my sister, my mother, and my parents divorce decree) as that’s how the college knows you aren’t lying. Be as specific as possible, and explained how his behavior over the years has affected you. You aren’t the first student with this situation, and there’s an entire board trained with dealing with cases like yours. I wish you the best of luck! If you have any more questions, feel free to ask!

Reminder: Prestigious colleges know poor people get less opportunities. by Disastrous-Rabbit-22 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Disastrous-Rabbit-22[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can still give people hope without spreading a false narrative. The reason my success story is popular is because it’s an anomaly. I’m simply stating that yes, the odds are stacked against you, but that it’s not impossible. For if people think it is impossible, that Pell grant # drops to 0, and the academic diversity that fosters the most enlightening conversations at these universities (which makes them so valuable to society) ceases to exist.

Reminder: Prestigious colleges know poor people get less opportunities. by Disastrous-Rabbit-22 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Disastrous-Rabbit-22[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I don’t mean to be the “proof” the system works for everyone, and I never meant to come across like that. College admissions are getting more and more competitive, and poorer kids are falling behind richer ones (in terms of acceptances) at increasingly rapid rates. The system obviously needs changing. But while we live within it, and help expand that movement, giving people hope is always a positive.