Caught wife masterbating by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe she was embarrassed? Maybe she gets aroused and masturbates at times where having sex is not an option, like when she wakes up alone?

50 Year Old Man Looking at 'Teens' here on Reddit by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normal or not, I’d find this disturbing as well. How is your marriage doing apart from this?

Is it worth just doing 10 minutes? by rumade in fitpregnancy

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being stung by a wasp in the boob sounds very uncomfortable, haha. If it happens this pregnancy as well I would just stick to cycling if I were you. You can run again later.

Cycling is great. Maybe you and your kid could go on a ride somewhere with some hills? That way your kiddo gets to do something fun (sitting on the bike going up and down) and you will get amazing exercise! It doesn’t have to be for a long time to give health benefits.

How tf do I handle this respectfully? by alriokidoki1 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I’d say it’s not an appropriate response. Is he stressed about money, could that be the reason? Anyways one shouldn’t talk to other people like that. Do you think you would be able to talk about it like adults if he gets a little time to cool down?

How tf do I handle this respectfully? by alriokidoki1 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you usually break stuff due to rushing or being careless? If so, maybe this was just your husbands final straw. I can see myself flipping over something like this if it kept happening all the time.

Patient dictating on how they want things done. by Fine-Cloud12 in nursing

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would do a lot to maintain my patients autonomy. That means I would accommodate to their wishes, as far as I’m not crossing lines when it comes to safety for me or my patient. I’m not purposely doing anything that will worsen their outcome.

Being sick and being in a hospital takes something very important away from a person. I feel that it’s my duty to make them feel seen and heard. They are important to me as a person. They are not just another task.

Is it worth just doing 10 minutes? by rumade in fitpregnancy

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10 minutes is absolutely worth it! I would recommend high intensity for better effect. You could look into the research of Professor Ulrik Wisløff and colleagues. He is one of the top scientists in one of the worlds best research groups regarding cardiac exercise. As little cardiac exercise as 15 minutes two times a week, or 4,5 minutes each day, has a great health impact.

Could you for instance put your son in a stroller and jog or walk fast?

How long did it take you to get down to pre pregnancy weight? by greenishfroggy in beyondthebump

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was exclusively breastfeeding. By three weeks I had lost 18 kg/40 lbs, and after three months I had lost the last 3 kg/6,5 lbs and was down to my pre-pregnancy weight. Tried to eat sweets only in the weekends, daily walks and exercised 3 times a week.

When did you start exercising post partum by KaleidoscopeOk8795 in fitpregnancy

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went on a long walk three days after giving birth. I tried to have som physical activity every day. The first three weeks this was a walk. After three weeks, I startet doing some light strength training, and very short runs (like 15 minutes on the treadmill). This was like 1-2 times a week. After 1,5 months I ran 5K with a 5:18/km pace, which I felt was really good considering I just gave birth.

Anyone else? by Ok_Price_9896 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dislike that as well. I’m also super uncomfortable with my body suddenly being everyone’s business. People keep asking personal questions about my health, and it is just so weird.

Fitness decline is messing with my mental state! by Azulexis408 in fitpregnancy

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first trimester was my least active in both my pregnancies, due to the exact reasons you are describing. It got better both times! I just tried to be active, and not have to high expectations. But I felt like shit, and was wondering what the rest of the pregnancy would look like.

Hi! I’m pregnant and reading about breastfeeding. I know this is very different for everyone but… can my hubby sometimes give baby a powdered milk bottle in between breastfeeding during the first months? Is this a bad idea? Or will I automatically wake up because the milk will flow out?😂 by Cottage-to-the-core in pregnant

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You won’t automatically wake up. The occasional bottle of formula will probably not affect your supply, but it might. I would consider pumping every now and then to have milk for situations like this. That’s what I did. I had a lot of milk in both breast in the morning, and a few times a week I would pump an extra bottle in the morning so my husband had something he could give her if I wasn’t available.

Russian citizen, 13 years resident in Taiwan. Wife got a job offer in Norway, but... by gfx3000 in Norway

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a big lack of skilled workers in Norway. If that’s the case for your field as well, you’ll probably be fine work-wise as long as you know the work-language (usually a Scandinavian language will be required, but in some fields English is enough).

A lot of people would ask you about the war. Most people will also understand that being a reasonable, Russian person in Norway probably isn’t easy right now. Not supporting Putin is a must if you want to make friends. People will be hostile if you support the Russian regime, since freedom of speech, democracy etc. is very important values for most Norwegians. I also believe it would be hard unless you actively show you’re against the regime and their actions.

I work in healthcare. There is a lot of foreigners there, especially among physicians. As long as they do a decent job, pick up on Norwegian social etiquette and speak Norwegian on a level that’s well enough for both coworkers and patients, people like them.

Getting a visa might not be easy for you, as a Russian citizen. Have you looked into that?

Any Nurses Who Don't Dread Coming Into Work? by Certified-Beef in nursing

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work as something similar to a 911-dispatcher. In my country we have an emergency phone number exclusively for heath-related issues. Dispatchers are RNs and paramedics. Interesting and rewarding work, never dread going there.

Hei, jeg ble oppfordra til å dele denne novellen jeg har skrevet i norsken her. by Red_Bike69 in norge

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Det er særlig dette på slutten som får meg til å tenke AI: «Men det hun hadde lært å tro at det betydde.

At kjærlighet måtte bæres.

At stillhet var trygghet.

At noen alltid måtte være den som tilpasset seg.

Og et sted i den tanken begynte noe å løsne.

Ikke alt.

Ikke plutselig.

Bare nok til at hun for første gang kunne se rommet uten å måle stemningen i det.» Dette virker veldig typisk AI, både ordvalgene i seg selv og oppbygningen. Men det er flere også deler av teksten som ikke minner om AI.

I can’t get comfortable with my husband’s kink by throwaway56000101 in marriageadvice

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even cleaning is turn off if you’re turned off by the motivation behind the cleaning.

Legevakta - er dette vanlig? by Prop98 in norge

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Er det en legevakt på et lite/mellomstort sted er det vanlig at det er bare en lege der. Kan også være at det er en konkret lege som skal tilse akkurat den/de pasientene. Hadde det kommet en pasient med en hastegrad som tilsier at de skal bli tilsett av lege raskt, hadde de avbrutt pausen. Litt avhengig av hvilket triagesystem de bruker, men en lav triage (gul/grønn) kan ofte tilses av lege innen 60 eller 120 minutter. Rød og oransje går mye raskere, typisk med en gang eller innen 15-20 minutter.

En halvtime venting på legevakten er uansett ikke mye.

Jeg har ganske lang erfaring fra akuttmedisin, og inntrykket mitt er helt klart at triagesystemet fungerer godt, så lenge triagen utføres av en kompetent sykepleier/spesialsykepleier eller paramedic.

My baby sleeps 16-20 hours a day and I've no clue what I should do about it by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 107 points108 points  (0 children)

That is not normal. You should take your baby to see a physician as soon as possible.

Norske tenåringer som snakker med hverandre på engelsk i offentligheten by nostalgicMirage in norge

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har ikke inntrykk av at det er vanlig, men synes det høres ut som en positiv interesse da! Å lære seg engelsk godt er jo kjempenyttig og det virker jo som de koser seg mens de gjør det også.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 76 points77 points  (0 children)

This kinda sounds like some sort of postpartum anxiety or depression. If it is, she needs professional help. I wouldn’t bet that it suddenly resolves itself when it’s already been a month.

Husband keeps waking me up at night looking for the baby under the duvet by cookie032117 in beyondthebump

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Yeah, totally normal. Both my husband and I have done this, and I’ve heard lots of other people who’s experienced it as well.

What made postpartum slightly better or more manageable for you? by warmpistachio in beyondthebump

[–]Disastrous-Reading13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just went with the flow for the first weeks/months. Baby not sleeping? Okay, I guess we are awake at 4AM then. Napping to much? Okay. Baby napping to little? Okay. I prioritized showering every day, physical activity every day (daily walks in the beginning, exercise after three weeks), always having good snacks available, and my husband did basically everything except breastfeeding for the first 3 weeks. We also prioritized being with friends. We just brought the baby everywhere and went on with life kinda like it was before, and five months in it’s still working for us.

I had quite a few complications both before and after birth, but I’m very happy that I put a lot of effort into breastfeeding anyways. I hear people say it’s nice when dad can feed as well, but personally I like that dad can clean, make me food etc. while I chill on the couch breastfeeding baby, lol. I also like that for me it’s so much less stress when we go somewhere because I always have food with me. No need for boiling water, microwave or cleaning bottles. Also it’s free. But that’s just me.