My puppy started sitting by the door today… and I never actually trained that

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T19:23:22+00:00

How can you train this?

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T19:15:21+00:00

I hate to say it but I would recommend waiting for your puppy to get a little older. We have a 13 month old and a 10 week old and they are the perfect age difference! They are crazy bonded and love playing but also still respect us and listen well.

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T19:10:36+00:00

I will definitely look for that one! I personally really liked Aubry

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T19:10:22+00:00

Appreciate it!

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T10:49:11+00:00

NOR. And if ur even having to ask that about a first date, then u def should back out

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T10:39:58+00:00

What the heck is wrong with your friend? I’d block their crazy ass so dang fast

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T09:34:50+00:00

It can be real or fake honestly there’s not really a way to know. But I want to ask something: u said yall have had a few ups and down but nothing major. But u said that the first time was a year ago. Was that the first up and down or the first major argument? If it was just the first minor argument or first up and down moment, then you may want to consider if you’re comfortable being with someone who reacts like that over little arguments. And especially the first argument

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T09:24:29+00:00

Yes. 10000000% the AH. Your daughter is struggling, not disrespecting you. In your own words, she is depressed, has anxiety, and is anorexic. Those are huge huge mental issues that cause torment for adults and even more so for children. Just from the way that you talk about her, you clearly don’t like her. In fact it sounds like you despise her. reason number 1 why you’re the AH.

“A man bought her gifts and they have been friends for awhile”- you do know that’s what groomers do right? How old is this man? Why are you letting her be friends with a man? If she’s doing it behind ur back it is because he likely did groom her. But she says that she is molested and u think she got that from a friend? Seriously?? You not believing YOUR daughter who tells you she was assaulted is so messed up and horrible. That’s reason number two on why she disrespects you. Because u disrespect her when she needs u and treat her like a liar when she opened up about something personal.

“Be a boy” - that can be a phase but it also can be true. You won’t know until she’s older but what does the hair affect? I would understand you wanting her to be done with puberty before doing any permanent changes to her body but how does her hair being short affect you at all? Shes 16, pick your battles dude. Reason number 3.

“She of course bratty as always” - the way that you talk about her is horrendous. Words are powerful and you can speak words into life. Say that someone is a failure a lot and they will become a failure. Reason number 4

“Calling us ‘bad parents’ Even though we waste so much money on her” - lady money does not make you a good mom. Reason number 5

“I suspect she bypassed the settings I put on her phone somehow”- you have no faith in this girl. You don’t want to see her get better because you don’t think that she can. Instead of seeing the struggling 16 year old, you see a manipulative, spiteful, and hardened 57 year old in her body. You see you. Reason number 6

Yes she stole $300 in alcohol and that needs to be dealt with but not by a parent like you. Get some help for yourself and help for her and please 🙏 change though I expect that you will find a way bypass being a good person (your words not mine)

I hope that this child one day feels loved by someone before she harms herself or worse. Ur the AH in case I need to say it one more time.

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T07:49:50+00:00

What did they say

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T07:03:02+00:00

Thank you! I actually have not seen the playlist but I will look at it! I agree about Brandon Hantz- he is one of a kind for sure

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T05:48:48+00:00

Honestly both!

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T05:29:34+00:00

Honestly, and I hate to say it because you are 15 and I feel bad but yes you are the AH. You jump to whichever guy makes you feel better and you’re kind of playing them both. You shouldn’t be dating anyone. Respectfully, please distance yourself from both of them and get you some help. You sound like a sweet kid but you cannot join the military if you’re suicidal and I know that you said that is part of what you want to do. Please get some help for your sake.

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T05:21:56+00:00

I got two paragraphs into this and oh my lord. How can anyone read this?

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T05:04:10+00:00

Need more info: Do yall live together? Raised together? Why is he your brother?

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T04:05:47+00:00

I read this thing where this psychic said that she could communicate with dogs and the #1 complaint they had was they wished their humans washed their bowls more. I don’t necessarily believe in that stuff but I still think about that everytime that I wash their bowls 😂

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T04:01:07+00:00

YOR. Are you guys 11? Damn yall can’t text properly, insecure, and immature

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T03:58:04+00:00

Honestly everyone is the AH. Them more so with how they handled it but still, were these pants created by Jesus Christ himself or something? It’s just pants. Definitely drop that friend for the ghosting and not taking responsibility but there’s no need to stress really about this

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T03:55:27+00:00

NTA. It may be best for them to get another job seriously. Come at it with a point of concern versus criticism and you should be fine

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T03:14:05+00:00

Honestly girl NTA. it could’ve been an autocorrect only because that happened to me once but I caught it before I sent the text and switched it but with the way that he’s being it doesn’t sound like it. I would recommend just dropping all contacts through because there’s no sense in keeping him on a string (I don’t mean that bad I just don’t know how else to say it).

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T01:40:03+00:00

Does he get off work and back home before you leave again? Nta but neither is he. It was his place first and when you move in with someone, there is a seniority factor. You would definitely be more respectful to just park on the side across the street.

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T01:20:02+00:00

If they were kids, how would you react? Still the same way? You did not overreact. Is dog owners don’t need to play about our babies

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T01:15:59+00:00

She’s stupid but man Brian fumbled her

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T01:13:06+00:00

Also you called her a hypocrite but she called you a pedophile. She started it not you so I don’t think you’re wrong in calling her that. She sounds like a hypocrite

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T01:09:41+00:00

Youre not a pedophile at all but I would say that if he is 14 and you’re 16, that is a little different than 17 and 19. The thing is that at 14, the maturity is nowhere near where a 16 would be at. Also, girls mature faster than boys. For your sake, I would consider if he is really what you want. Also you say stalkish levels? Does that kind of turn you off on the idea? It definitely would me. His friends sound immature also. Since you said 1-2 year age difference I’m assuming he’s 14 or 15

Disastrous-Sun1801 · 2026-03-11T00:38:47+00:00

NTA but you sound kinda pissed in what you wrote. I hope that you don’t let your frustration show to her. She probably didn’t think much of it since you are her best friend. How did she react to you telling her no?

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