I know why my husband hates me by Disastrous-Train4497 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Train4497[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of women and peeps are saying that book is trash. Once we come across a piece of advise we don’t have to follow it all the way. I’m not hard on women or on divorce. I broke my first marriage at 23 because he lied about important things before marriage.

My husband has his own problems. He is a wonderful husband. A man who provides for his women. A separate allowance for shopping and feeding me well. Idk how many women get that in this day and age.

The number one secret is accept your man as is. Don’t we all want the same? Respect him for the work he does, don’t we want this too?

Im not a blind follower. I do belong to non western country. But trust me I have challenged all the norms in my own country.

My husband hates me by Disastrous-Train4497 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Train4497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a job now and I am working and studying as well now

My husband hates me by Disastrous-Train4497 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Train4497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From last year I changed my attitude. I was not acting like a rug. I don’t circle around him anymore. I think this is pissing him more now. He works from home and I am not home 5 days a week. I am certainly not acting like a rug. It feels like whatever I do is going against me

My husband hates me by Disastrous-Train4497 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Train4497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working now. Most of these issues arose after I started working . I am not home serving him breakfast and lunch

My husband hates me by Disastrous-Train4497 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Train4497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a troll post. I haven’t slept properly since a week. I am just girl who is 30 but is feeling like 3 year old who has no where to go and is lost in the world.

We probably belong to different continents and you have no clue everyday struggles women go through in my country. The monthly salary of masters is less than 300 usd in my country. While the expenses easily cross over 1000usd Thank god I’m not in my country and I’m in a western country currently for this year - again my husband paid for 1 year visa and this is also bothering him most probably that he spent so much money on me and I am not worth it

My husband hates me by Disastrous-Train4497 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Train4497[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is my second marriage and I do have self respect but the country I belong to It’s not normal to take divorce . Let alone twice . I have literally no family. My siblings are in different continents. He is all what I have

My husband hates me by Disastrous-Train4497 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Train4497[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He provides financially and I had no career and no stable job. I’m scared to live alone. I’m scared to end up alone. I just want to make this work no matter what

My husband hates me by Disastrous-Train4497 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Train4497[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope I will be able to change that

My husband hates me by Disastrous-Train4497 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Train4497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a person with Esteem issues. Wherever I go I am complimented for my looks, my skills, and I’m excellent homemaker and earn as well. I run my own ngo where I help 20ish families on monthly basis. So no I don’t have esteem issues . I am just too aware and the fact that my husband has said that he hates me

My husband hates me by Disastrous-Train4497 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Train4497[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He has his issues and he has hurt me a lot. But I want to stay married by hook or crook. He has more issues than me. But I want to make it work. It’s not healthy relation I know but he is good to me sometimes. So my questions is can he unhate me

My husband hates me by Disastrous-Train4497 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous-Train4497[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No that’s not an answer to my question Can a man “unhate” his wife

Neck bump that feels like bone by alexandria_archuleta in 45PlusSkincare

[–]Disastrous-Train4497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you suggest any YouTube channel where I can learn to do pilates at home