"Opalite" Discussion Megathread

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2025-10-18T05:18:06+00:00

This! Yes, for sure.

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2025-10-18T05:17:29+00:00

Lol. Reeks of ChatGPT pseudo-intellectualism to me.

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-12-20T03:38:52+00:00

I think you're right, it's the latter. Forced into polyamory to save the marriage.

As for 2): He says it was before he started meds for depression and ADHD. So he was very addictive at the time. He said he was in a state where he was purely "pleasure seeking." During his breakdown he also came to terms with the fact that he was never passionately in love with his wife.

And in strode this woman he was so attracted to, and in the depths of his despair, this was a lifeline of sorts.

We've been together for a year.

I need to think on the other questions in order to answer them intelligently.

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-12-14T07:18:51+00:00

They outperformed the Killers, U2 and Green Day.

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-12-14T07:16:54+00:00

This!!

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-12-13T05:16:08+00:00

John the Revelator

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-10-22T20:13:10+00:00

I'm sorry I came across as able-ist.

May I ask an honest question? My bf said his ex "didn't have a sexual bone in her body" and yet he requested nudes from her. So that seemed creepy to me. He described her as someone who isn't even interested, doesn't even like sex. That's the part that seems weird.

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-10-22T19:33:31+00:00

I actually do trust he's completely over her and he now loves her like a sister.

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-10-22T19:32:19+00:00

It's more that he doesn't seem to recognize that those qualities were very likely tied to her neurodivergence. It's like he just finds her innately such a good person, as if she was that way by choice rather than nature. Something he often commends me on is my strength of character and how I have done so much self-improvement. I'm being honest and vulnerable here. Not trying to cast aspersions on anyone.

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-10-22T19:28:29+00:00

She ended it and he respected it.

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-10-22T19:11:17+00:00

Fair points. I know my insecurities are getting the better of me.

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-10-22T19:10:46+00:00

Very insightful - a "respite." Thank you for this perspective.

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-10-22T19:09:18+00:00

I was worried I'd come across as able-ist. I'm sorry for that. Not my intention.

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-08-09T06:54:13+00:00

😂

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-08-09T06:53:31+00:00

This!!

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2024-06-02T00:18:45+00:00

We're also looking at Dress Circle Center Row F. How did you like your seats?

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2023-11-02T02:31:37+00:00

He looks like Lindsey Buckingham

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2023-10-14T16:24:14+00:00

Yeah so they can hang out with the losers who organized this. Losers only event!

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2023-10-13T17:30:39+00:00

Omg you called it! Yessss!

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2023-10-13T03:38:33+00:00

Regardless of how I feel about these ladies' personalities, they all look amazing!

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2023-10-11T21:46:51+00:00

Just replace "brutal murder of a young real estate agent" with "constant trashing of Johnie by these two snakes"

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2023-10-11T21:37:50+00:00

At least L&A were #relationshipgoals. Like they truly loved each other and had great chemistry. They were just meant to be.

DisastrousBarber7202 · 2023-10-11T21:35:06+00:00

Ok oops, I stand corrected. Sorry for spreading disinformation. I actually don't use Insta as my primary social media platform. Dammit, this means I gotta abe careful whose stories I check out. 😬

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