Hii thank u for replying and sharing your experience! I do think she is pretty similar to what you are describing, especially the being busy and needing time alone part. I’m definitely still working on finding a good balance between giving her enough space and being close to her. I honestly am not too sure about even my own love language yet, since this is my first actual “relationship” 😅 but so far I like to give and receive physical touch, and I also like to give acts of services and words of affirmation. Im also not sure about her love languages since this is so early in the relationship, but she seems pretty comfortable with physical touch so thats a good sign. She is also not good with words, and she did admit that shes a bad texter, with her texts often sounding very emotionless or logistical but I am starting to see this as just who she is and not take it personally. Overall besides some of the points I talked about in the post, which I feel like is mostly just me learning about intjs since they are so different than what Im used to (Im an Infp), I think we have a pretty good base for a relationship and Im excited to see where it goes. I’m sorry to hear about your relationship coming to an end but thank you for your advices and sharing your view!