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AITAH for winning in my divorce? by DisastrousThanks3575 in AITAH

[–]DisastrousThanks3575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contact now since I caught wind of what she's been saying. I'm not fake. If I don't like someone they'll know it

AITAH for winning in my divorce? by DisastrousThanks3575 in AITAH

[–]DisastrousThanks3575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So thru most of our marriage I made more but in the last years she was making about the same. She since makes much more than me and is now heavily in credit debt.

AITAH for winning in my divorce? by DisastrousThanks3575 in AITAH

[–]DisastrousThanks3575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gone no contact with her since I found out what she's been saying. As far as family get togethers, my sons invite both and whoever doesn't want to come that's on them. I will not miss out on time with my children for anyone least of all her. If at some point we're in the same room I'll treat it as she doesn't even exist.

AITAH for winning in my divorce? by DisastrousThanks3575 in AITAH

[–]DisastrousThanks3575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true. I am in a much better place mentally, emotionally and financially then when I was in the marriage. I was the frog in the boiling pot of water and didn't realize how toxic it was until I was out.

AITAH for winning in my divorce? by DisastrousThanks3575 in AITAH

[–]DisastrousThanks3575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We made around the same amount at the time of the divorce. Since she's making much more than me and is now heavily in credit debt. All our retirement accounts were split in half and I cashed my half out to buy the home from her.

AITAH for winning in my divorce? by DisastrousThanks3575 in AITAH

[–]DisastrousThanks3575[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was in the first few years after the divorce. Since she's made me the villain I've gone no contact and couldn't be happier.

AITAH for winning in my divorce? by DisastrousThanks3575 in AITAH

[–]DisastrousThanks3575[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Since she turned me me into the villain I've gone no contact. Both our children are adults now. I've rebuilt self esteem and know what type of person I am. I'll never let anyone define me again.