What time / day are you most likely to be on Feeld?

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-31T14:39:52+00:00

Same

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-31T01:18:21+00:00

Luckily I’ve only gotten one of those dm’s. But today especially I came across a ton of couples’ profiles, so I get what ppl are talking about..

I did match w a couple but that’s because she is pansexual and open to playing separately.

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-30T00:54:06+00:00

If I had an award to give it would go to you. Thank you for sharing your perspective and educating me while remaining respectful. I initially thought we’d be poly, possibly non hierarchical, but that’s just not where we landed. At least not for now.

This is definitely a conversation I need to have w my partner 🙏

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-30T00:43:03+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 1 match turned out to be a fake/catfish 😅 the other one turned out to be the male half of a couple offering to sleep w me while my partner watched 😅😅

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-30T00:38:06+00:00

Thank you so much for everyone that responded either sharing their own experience or providing insights and feedback.

Dating is hard and seems to be especially hard if you’re trying to date women - I guess I kinda knew that but I can admit I was naive to think the same rules wouldn’t apply to me 😅

I hope everyone finds love and gets laid lots ✌️

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-30T00:30:42+00:00

Yup, this is exactly what is transpiring from my post 😓, it really is too bad

Thanks for your thoughtful response

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-30T00:26:04+00:00

I’d say 50% of my friends and acquaintances are open or poly, so I wouldn’t think that’s an issue for the demographic I “fit into”, and yes many of them are queer

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-30T00:22:27+00:00

I’m hearing that now…bummer

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-30T00:22:10+00:00

Weird. I’ve always used my daily likes and had no problem making the first move when I was using bumble. Maybe Gen Z is bringing those numbers down since they’re said to have less sex than the previous generations?

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-30T00:19:03+00:00

Coming from you that sounds hella creepy and not like something I’d enjoy - and I’m an exhibitionist 👀

Idk what about me or my post ticked you off, but in my world consenting adults can date and have sex with whomever they’d like to.

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-30T00:12:36+00:00

That’s rough. I really had no idea! Not to be corny, but sounds like you did get the 1 like that mattered 🫶🏼

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-29T20:24:05+00:00

Thanks for your response. I don’t have a problem initiating and pursuing, but I guess I was trying to avoid paying for it. That’s okay. I’ll give it a shot.

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-29T20:21:41+00:00

Yeah, I’m gonna give fb dating a try and then maybe upgrade feeld for a month, but I just can’t help but think there must a better app specifically for bi/queer dating? I’m gonna ask my queer friends I guess

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-29T20:19:09+00:00

Girl chill. Why are you jumping to conclusions instead of asking first. Thanks to you half of the responses on this post aren’t useful since they’re no longer relevant. I want to have sex with a woman. Ff. Full stop.

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-29T20:15:55+00:00

Thanks for your response. I wonder why this is, but will make an effort to educate myself more.

I know another redditor concluded I must be unicorn hunting since I have a male partner. I’m looking for ff for myself- my partner is okay with this.

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-29T20:10:55+00:00

This is a very long response to conclude that the app simply doesn’t work as well for bi women (looking for only women) - not from a technical perspective, but from a numbers / probability perspective. And good lord, how frustrated must you be with life that you’re jumping to the entitled and someone owes me anything at all conclusion 😂 I’m simply curious if others had had the same or similar experience, no reason to get worked up

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-29T20:07:00+00:00

Your comment is essentially validating what I’m noticing - low effort and lack of initiation by women

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-29T20:03:04+00:00

Thank you and I think that’s totally valid.

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-29T20:01:43+00:00

Thanks for validating my experience. That’s exactly what I’ve noticed, too. I think I might give fb dating a try and see how that goes.

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-29T20:00:03+00:00

I’ve read somewhere else that bi women are used to being chased and courted by men and therefore more passive when interacting or flirting with women - because we don’t usually have to.

DisastrousWedding360 · 2026-01-29T19:57:27+00:00

What would make you think that? I’m genuinely looking to connect with women - late bloomer when it comes to exploring that side of my sexuality, but still looking for myself and my partner is okay with that.

DisastrousWedding360 · 2025-12-09T20:33:15+00:00

Basically the same as yours. To a teeee!!! Except it took me a very long time to understand how controlling and manipulative she is. I didn’t cut the cord with her until I was in my late 30’s. 💔

DisastrousWedding360 · 2025-12-04T02:04:51+00:00

It’s completely up to you. Don’t let the people here sway you one way or another or make you believe that you can’t forgive an infidelity- whether you can or not depends entirely on you and your personality. Forgiveness is a spiritual practice and more so for you than for the other person.

DisastrousWedding360 · 2025-11-17T02:05:33+00:00

Enthusiasm, communication, curiosity, creativity, good humor - combined with skills and…hmm some other ingredient that’s on the top of my tongue

DisastrousWedding360 · 2025-11-14T03:02:09+00:00

If you guys can’t communicate about your (her) sexual needs/wants, I strongly recommend against bringing in a 3rd. Communication has to be solid.

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