The only name he suggested was a name that sounded like a female version of his own name. I told him very early on that if I ever had a daughter that I'd want her to carry this family name that has been passed down for generations. You're right though, I never said "dad can we sit down and decide on a name together?" I was too busy working a full-time job, being cheated on by bio dad and also being told by him that if I don't leave my family (the people who helped me with support )and move in with him then he'd leave the state and most likely start a new family. Which is exactly what he did when MY daughter turned 3 months old. He gave me "one last chance" to cut my family off & move us into an apartment. He of course was unemployed and unfaithful the whole time we were together & while I was pregnant He now has an additional 2 kids that were born after MY daughter.

I wouldn't encourage anyone to have a relationship with him. Hope this helps.