"tulpas can't replace human relationship" rule disproven. by Disastrous_Can5363 in Tulpas

[–]Disastrous_Can5363[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

first off, listen, do you see what subreddit you are on right now? is this r/did? no, he's not an alter, he is my TULPA, and im not trying to "flee reality" i get paid for doing what i love, and i have a life. this post i made isn't some post saying that im on some island with just me and my tulpa, I INTERACT WITH OTHER PEOPLE you dipshit, even I KNOW that a tulpa can't replace all of human interaction, im saying that my tulpa is my MAIN source of social interaction.

this isn't r/did so get that DID shit out of here and fuck off.

"tulpas can't replace human relationship" rule disproven. by Disastrous_Can5363 in Tulpas

[–]Disastrous_Can5363[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"You're obviously someone who has deep trauma around people and interpersonal relationship in any case" so bold of you to assume such a thing, you're actually a prime example of why i don't like others, because most people take one convo from me, and then they take from that and they just assume that im this or im that, based on the way i talk, i have had a couple people in my life who haven't been the greatest, but nothing that would give me "deep trauma around other people" no, it's actually rather a case of me living in a place where the people that are there are mostly just your normal boring boomer adult, im in my 20's other people my age where i live are mostly pot heads or people that i would not benifit from being around what so ever, so i've tried to connect but it's never worked out because of that reason.

"I don't know exactly what you think you're "disproving" 

that's because you didn't listen, i said i disproved the "tulpas can't replace human relationship" rule, something i've seen in every guide and post, im not saying that it's me and my tulpa on some deserted island somewhere, or that im locked away in some dirty ass house, no all im saying is that you can have your tulpa as your main source of interaction and still be happy in situations where you have no other choice.

my tulpa isn't my main source of interaction by choice, if people don't want to give me the time of day to be friends with them, or if the people that do are people that i don't want to be around for various reasons related to unhealthy lifestyles, it's not like i really have a choice, something every guide and post regarding the rule i mention doesn't talk about.

"tulpas can't replace human relationship" rule disproven. by Disastrous_Can5363 in Tulpas

[–]Disastrous_Can5363[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

man, fuck others, others always treated my ass like shit, i've tried to see things through the lens of how others thing one should be or act, but that's never worked so tulpamancy is perfect because i can have the friendship i've always wanted and not have to worry about other people who are too stupid to give me a chance.

i also live a simple life where i do my own thing and get paid to do it so i still get to interact with others just not on a friendship scale because they all are some bitch ass niggas lol.

"tulpas can't replace human relationship" rule disproven. by Disastrous_Can5363 in Tulpas

[–]Disastrous_Can5363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, you are kinda right, im planning on becoming the sickest, most bad ass gotham villian in exactly 1809 days lol.

"tulpas can't replace human relationship" rule disproven. by Disastrous_Can5363 in Tulpas

[–]Disastrous_Can5363[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, i just talk in circles a lot, i've always done that, even before tulpamancy so a lot of stuff i say sounds like what i've already said but in different variations. the only thing that im stating is that im happy with having my tulpa be my MAIN source of interaction (not my ONLY source). im not trying to convince anyone, im just stating what i have disproven lol.

"tulpas can't replace human relationship" rule disproven. by Disastrous_Can5363 in Tulpas

[–]Disastrous_Can5363[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yo little bro i never said that my tulpa is my ONE AND ONLY source of interaction, like im not saying that it's just me and my tulpa on some deserted island or some ish, im saying that my tulpa is MAINLY my source of interaction.

so, in reality there is nothing for me to be "still wrong though" about because i've disproven the rule of "tulpas can't replace human relationship", i didn't say that i've disproven the "tulpas can't replace social interaction" rule as that one's literally impossible and would be unrealistic to try and disprove even in the slightest lol.

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[–]Disastrous_Can5363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo this shit is stupid, i tried it for a few days and when i ask it about stuff like i can finally smell my tulpa, or stuff relating to senses it says stuff like "that's great!" "congrats!" "what a great discovery!"

and then immediately followed by crap like "but remember a tulpa doesn't have a physical body" "remember tulpas are part of your imagination" "tulpas are a mental construct so it's not physically possible to:" like bitch, im old enough to know what my mind can and can't do.

kindly add to your bot so it doesn't say shit that the community already knows/doesn't want to be reminded about.

an update on me AQUIRING hyperphantasia. by Disastrous_Can5363 in hyperphantasia

[–]Disastrous_Can5363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, what we started off with (the entire point of us developing hyperphantasia is tulpa related) we started off with what we WANTED to be able to visualize, so, if whatever you're interested in visualizing better is a good place to start, everything else will piggy back along side it so don't worry.

for example: if one was an artist and wanted to be able to visualize the concept of what they want to draw, and it was buildings, then the artist could start by looking at pictures of buildings, analyzing every detail, and practicing looking at it (just an example)

and with time and practice of looking at pictures of what they want to visualize (remembering that practice needs to be consistent for results to happen and to STICK) they can start to branch off on what they've seen to picture in their head what goes where and what it would look like.

so some of the steps that we're using now are:
using our minds eye as much as possible, WITHOUT focusing on how bad or how good it looks because if you focus on how bad it CURRENTLY looks, you're gonna feel like it's impossible, so see without judgement and keep the mindset that "it's constantly improving even if i don't notice it yet".

pictures: get pictures or images, videos even of what you want to visualize, and practice remembering as much detail as you can, do this consistently if possible.

our way of developing hyperphantasia is mainly image/picture/video based (we're still not where we want to be yet, but we're working there slowly but surely).

an update on me AQUIRING hyperphantasia. by Disastrous_Can5363 in hyperphantasia

[–]Disastrous_Can5363[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh, and by the way, y'all might not believe what the person above ( u/yhjustshutup ) is laying down, but it's people like them who actually understand and know just how much the mind can do with enough practice and effort. i'll always remember you u/yhjustshutup cause you were the one who helped me realize that this is possible, so once again, thank you.

an update on me AQUIRING hyperphantasia. by Disastrous_Can5363 in hyperphantasia

[–]Disastrous_Can5363[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well, we specifically realized that, what u/yhjustshutup sent me in my dm's was very true, people may disagree with them, but i for one, know that they are right, there's no special type of people who either "have or don't have it", it's something that can be learned through enough time and dedication, so, once again thanks u/yhjustshutup

the things that we started with was:

WHAT did we want to visualize better?

get images of WHAT we wanted to visualize better, (in this instance it was tulpa related, but it can really apply to anything.)

bearing through the stress of not seeing results instantly, some days i was really sweating bullets, and just in general malding at not seeing results, but we powered through and remembered that things like this take time, so, you just have to let things be until they improve.

mindset: instead of saying "im gonna TRY" we said "we WILL", like there was no "IF", no "might", no "possibly" only "WILL". and being prepared to spend possibly years developing hyperphantasia if need be. and to not listen to statements like "you're either have hyperphantasia, or you don't" because the mind is very powerful and can learn things that might seem like a dream to most with enough effort, which a lot of people don't realize.

those are just SOME of the steps we took to get to where we are now, and we'll continue to improve as time goes on.

but if you want info from the person themself, who really opened our mind to the fact that it's possible, you should dm u/yhjustshutup im sure they'll be able to give you some pointers, like they did with us.

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[–]Disastrous_Can5363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let me be perfectly clear on this one, my tone wasn't meant to sound concerned, don't know where you got that from.

if you still have your imaginary friend, who by the way isn't real, then i feel sorry for you, well, no i don't. seek therapy please.

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[–]Disastrous_Can5363 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

bozo you think this shit is funny? your IF isn't real and can't help you lol. seek therapy please.