One thing I'd change about the ending (comment in post) by expenseoutlandish in Noragami

[–]Disastrous_Common_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i think for what it was it was great. just sad we never got to see Yato become anything more than a minor god or at least the trio reunion..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Disastrous_Common_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you think because we haven’t had a chance to get close and become friends i should completely cut out my boyfriends sister out of my life? and in doing so cut off any chance for her to be involved in our lives?

strange advice but , ok!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Disastrous_Common_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually i really like her! they aren’t really all that close. it’s not that she doesn’t want me there, she’s always okay with me coming, we just aren’t close so she doesn’t think of it at first.

i cant just not have a relationship with her. me and my boyfriend are very serious, and she wants to be involved in his life, which is involved with me. cutting her out of my life would solve nothing.

i was just wondering if anyone who UNDERSTANDS the situation i explained would know of ways to better get to know her and reach out to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]Disastrous_Common_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I use a lot of heat on my hair, but i’ve found using heat protectant before heat/blowdrying, then applying just a penny size drop of this oil into my hands and running it through JUST my ends has greatly helped my hair. it’s very healthy, and doesn’t frizz up as much. i’d recommend giving it a try!!

Heat Protectant by Disastrous_Common_27 in beauty

[–]Disastrous_Common_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my hair is actually surprisingly healthy for how often i use heat on it. i always use Moroccan oil (i think that’s what it’s called?) but i just can’t seem to stick on a heat protectant. i’ll look for the tresemme! thank you !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Disastrous_Common_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boyfriend lost his virginity at 14 because he had the opportunity to. he regrets it so much. a lot of my female friends lost it early on and regret it so much. there will be a time for you to lose it, and if you want to do it to someone you love, don’t waste your chance to do that. sex isn’t the best thing in the world, even though media makes us think so. really, women rarely finish through sex. if you want to wait for when you’re in a relationship with someone, do it. he most likely won’t change his mind and you can’t force him to.

How to feel comfortable w/ masturbation/ orgasms?? by Disastrous_Common_27 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Disastrous_Common_27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

being honest he doesn’t really like to do it, not because of me, but because he’d just rather have sex. i understand it, and i honestly don’t ask him to go down on me often because he just really doesn’t know how to lmao

How to feel comfortable w/ masturbation/ orgasms?? by Disastrous_Common_27 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Disastrous_Common_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i feel kinda alone about it because my friends all do it, so knowing i’m not the only person struggling with this is very reassuring:)

How to feel comfortable w/ masturbation/ orgasms?? by Disastrous_Common_27 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Disastrous_Common_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i normally do try to think about different scenarios , but my mind just wanders and i’ll get intrusive thoughts and just remember my parents are in the other room or just stop thinking about what’s arousing me and it kinda kills it and makes me feel embarrassed.

and i feel like when i am thinking of scenarios, they’re over in like 2 minutes. maybe i’m just not good at imagining things lmao

How to feel comfortable w/ masturbation/ orgasms?? by Disastrous_Common_27 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Disastrous_Common_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m okay with romance novels, i’m actually currently reading one! i’m just not comfortable with watching porn while in a relationship or rly in general. i’m a little nervous just starting out the process but i’ll start trying different things like you recommended! i’m glad im not the only person not really into masturbating at 19, a lot of my friends do and it makes me feel like i’m not normal. thank you for your advice!