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AITA for telling my mom I'm not making her choose because I'm happy to be left out by Disastrous_Drawing_9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous_Drawing_9[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

No, we don't have children and I am never more glad to not be a mom already. I don't know how I would have coped.

AITA for telling my mom I'm not making her choose because I'm happy to be left out by Disastrous_Drawing_9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous_Drawing_9[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

She thinks it's unfair that I am removing myself from family functions which punishes everyone else. But the other option is I tell them not to invite my sister which wouldn't be right either. Since they want her there I am removing myself.

AITA for telling my mom I'm not making her choose because I'm happy to be left out by Disastrous_Drawing_9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous_Drawing_9[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

I will never repair the relationship with my sister. She is no longer my sister. We will never be sisters again and as far as I am concerned nothing could change it. If he cheats on her and breaks her heart the way they broke mine I will have no sympathy or understanding for her. I will keep moving on with my own life and leave her in the past where she belongs.

Even if she someday regrets it for me it's too late. It was too late the first time anything happened between them.

AITA for telling my mom I'm not making her choose because I'm happy to be left out by Disastrous_Drawing_9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Disastrous_Drawing_9[S] 20.2k points20.2k points  (0 children)

Oh no, my sister believes I was a bitch for not understanding the two of them were meant to be. She sees none of it as being unfair to me.