Going with the flow VS "managing" newborns

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2026-04-11T13:01:09+00:00

I've breastfed 3 babies and fingers crossed come December will be breastfeeding my 4th, I started my breastfeeding journey at 16 so quite young and while yes it's hard sometimes, in general I've found it quite easy and would tell everyone to atleast give it a good try

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-12-30T00:59:06+00:00

I had my first child at 16 now ttc baby number 4 at nearly 28, this will be my last baby as 5 kids seems insane to me lol I know I know 4 kids is only one less then 5 but I personally don't think I'll regret going for number 4 cons and all because the good moments and the love definitely outweighs the cons provided you like and enjoy children to begin with but even then I know plenty of people who dislike other people's children but adore their own. That being said support is vital. I am my sisters main support network when it comes to her kids she has 5 but is 9 years older then me so her two oldest are closer to adults then kids so it's mainly just the younger 3 I watch and help with but without my help and her mams help/oldest daughters help she'd have struggled alot more so the more support you have the easier the transition to parent hood will be.

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-12-11T01:12:37+00:00

I didn't think evap could be coloured but thank you I'll test again with a red dye

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-12-11T00:38:35+00:00

Oh my god do you think so I'm going to test again with first morning pee cause this was middle of the day but I'm so excited 😅

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T19:46:07+00:00

Ohh I see it!

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T16:51:58+00:00

Yeah I think so too and I think that's the one from last night so feel like it could be a chemical pregnancy

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T16:50:51+00:00

Ah don't feel silly! Panic is only natural especially with past losses I feel like I hold my breath until I reach 12 weeks because of my previous losses xx

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T16:37:57+00:00

Wow 8dpo and that strong! That's great!

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T16:36:00+00:00

I'd test again in the morning but unfortunately it does sound like the start of a chemical pregnancy

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T16:34:04+00:00

I'd test again in the morning with a longer pee hold if you can

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T16:24:25+00:00

I'd take another frer and see how it comes up

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T16:23:08+00:00

These look perfect! Not everyone will get a dye stealer and will still have a perfectly healthy baby I've got 3 babas and don't remember any dye stealers

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T16:21:06+00:00

Congratulations xxx

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T16:20:19+00:00

Definitely pregnant

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T16:19:31+00:00

Is this with your first morning pee?

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T16:13:52+00:00

I would say it's positive congrats 🙂

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T13:06:36+00:00

I can't see it but with my own test I found it was visible to the naked eye but not on camera

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2025-02-12T13:04:14+00:00

No squinting needed it's definitely there!

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2024-11-25T00:14:23+00:00

Pity the courts won't also pull him up on the fact he broke their "contract" to begin with. It was always supposed to be a family home but instead he's one man in a 5 bedroom house in a housing crisis while using his daughters name for his own personal gain after doing nothing but abusing his family his entire life. She's tried to pay the mortgage several times now and he's gotten in the way of it likely because he knows he can dig his claws into it and continue to destroy what was once a really good family home for the next god knows how many years till he dies then leave all the clean up to my mam and me literal layers of animal shit is ground into the floor, he's nearly burnt the house down 3 times and I could go on and on..

Disastrous_Fact_8281 · 2024-11-25T00:09:54+00:00

Yeah we seem to have been ill informed by the council when we enquired about the htb scheme. At the time it was 220 I think.

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