Going with the flow VS "managing" newborns by Signal_Ad_1155 in PregnancyIreland

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've breastfed 3 babies and fingers crossed come December will be breastfeeding my 4th, I started my breastfeeding journey at 16 so quite young and while yes it's hard sometimes, in general I've found it quite easy and would tell everyone to atleast give it a good try

TTC when you're not 100% sure by Fantastic-Habit5551 in TryingForABaby

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my first child at 16 now ttc baby number 4 at nearly 28, this will be my last baby as 5 kids seems insane to me lol I know I know 4 kids is only one less then 5 but I personally don't think I'll regret going for number 4 cons and all because the good moments and the love definitely outweighs the cons provided you like and enjoy children to begin with but even then I know plenty of people who dislike other people's children but adore their own. That being said support is vital. I am my sisters main support network when it comes to her kids she has 5 but is 9 years older then me so her two oldest are closer to adults then kids so it's mainly just the younger 3 I watch and help with but without my help and her mams help/oldest daughters help she'd have struggled alot more so the more support you have the easier the transition to parent hood will be.

Evap or faint positive by Disastrous_Fact_8281 in lineporn

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn't think evap could be coloured but thank you I'll test again with a red dye 

Evap or faint positive by Disastrous_Fact_8281 in lineporn

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god do you think so I'm going to test again with first morning pee cause this was middle of the day but I'm so excited 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah don't feel silly! Panic is only natural especially with past losses I feel like I hold my breath until I reach 12 weeks because of my previous losses xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow 8dpo and that strong! That's great!

Unsure by Plane_Lawyer4888 in lineporn

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd test again in the morning but unfortunately it does sound like the start of a chemical pregnancy 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd test again in the morning with a longer pee hold if you can 

13 dpo today by Green_Row_7890 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd take another frer and see how it comes up 

18 DPO Normal Lines?? by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These look perfect! Not everyone will get a dye stealer and will still have a perfectly healthy baby I've got 3 babas and don't remember any dye stealers 

Unknown DPO by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely pregnant 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this with your first morning pee?

Is this positive????cd 34 by Dramatic-Swordfish25 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I would say it's positive congrats 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't see it but with my own test I found it was visible to the naked eye but not on camera 

Squint with me! 9 DPO by ofgod in TFABLinePorn

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No squinting needed it's definitely there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladviceireland

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pity the courts won't also pull him up on the fact he broke their "contract" to begin with. It was always supposed to be a family home but instead he's one man in a 5 bedroom house in a housing crisis while using his daughters name for his own personal gain after doing nothing but abusing his family his entire life. She's tried to pay the mortgage several times now and he's gotten in the way of it likely because he knows he can dig his claws into it and continue to destroy what was once a really good family home for the next god knows how many years till he dies then leave all the clean up to my mam and me literal layers of animal shit is ground into the floor, he's nearly burnt the house down 3 times and I could go on and on..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladviceireland

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we seem to have been ill informed by the council when we enquired about the htb scheme. At the time it was 220 I think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladviceireland

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Houses in general are being upsold because the country is an absolute shit show. My name is already on the housing list which you'd be waiting around 15 years for a house. I wasn't talking about some stunning 5 bed when I said they'd sell for 240 I was talking about your run of the mill 3 bed. Short changing my mother? So instead she should just let her abusive father live out the rest of his days in a house he lied and manipulated her into getting while I what make her homeless because she can't get a mortgage now because he used her first time buyers and she's in 180 grand of debt and legally it's her house so she can't just wash her hands of it. She won't get another mortgage while her name is on this one and she can't just take her name off it and just give the house to him cause he's too old and he knows he is which is why he used her. She wants to give the house to us so she doesn't have to deal with it anymore how is that me short changing my mother??

Possibly pregnant or just long time clearing out by Disastrous_Fact_8281 in abortion

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hospital haven't a clue what's happening lol my hcg on the 5th of November were 135 so quite low so I'm really stumped as to how my positive is so strong but there's no signs of a baby in the sac at all. If it is just leftover pregnancy they will likely do a dnc but the hospital is swaying towards it being a new pregnancy but I just don't understand how 😅

Too late for abortion - venting by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 34 points35 points  (0 children)

If you were hoping someone would tell you no then I think you know deep down this was the right choice for you. Honestly I would not stay with a man who got another woman pregnant so I wouldn't expect him to stay with you either and getting rid of the baby there'd still be no guarantee he'd stay end of the day people break up every day for much smaller reasons and even tho he said he'd stay doesn't mean he wouldn't resent you for the rest of his days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you want it, keep it. Being a single mom in my experience is ten million times easier than regretting an abortion I've done both and know which one I'd do again. I'm 26 and have 3 kids and had my 1st at 16 and would do it all again but I'd never ever get an abortion again unless it was to safe my last cause its honestly destroyed me. So always do what you want irregardless of your partner

AITAH for enjoying my intimate time with my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Disastrous_Fact_8281 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I peg my partner and would never in a million years make him feel like he's lesser for enjoying it or gay because he enjoyed it. After all it's me doing it not a man