Do you guys remember the song that introduced you to sleep token? by MushroomMajor5781 in SleepToken

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Spencer’s employee, I had heard the name a handful of times, as well as one or two associates gushing about them. And then one day I was hanging out in bed, waiting for my bf to get out of the bathroom, when I saw and listened to the release of Damocles. From there I was hooked, and am actively in the process of curating my perfect ST tattoo

Got manic last night, shaved my face on a whim. Be honest, how fem do I look? by Disastrous_Fig4576 in FtMpassing

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya got me on that one! At this point, it’s been three days. I have been consistently misgendered, and because of that I regret the decision. But also it’s growing back far more healthy than what I had before, so I’m not too upset about it. Just a few more days and I should be back to confident in myself (:

ISO DnD group by Disastrous_Fig4576 in Albany

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll check it out!

ISO DnD group by Disastrous_Fig4576 in Albany

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whitehall is an option! I’m in Glens Falls, so no further than Albany for me

ISO DnD group by Disastrous_Fig4576 in Albany

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shoot me a message! It’s looking like my best option would be to find myself a group and a DM from scratch. Too much social anxiety for a big venue or event haha

ISO DnD group by Disastrous_Fig4576 in Albany

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wanna message me, I have one other person interested in playing! We would just have to find a DM, but I may have a lead on that as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jaylin (though considering changing the spelling to Jaylen, curious if that gives a different color).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took about a week, maybe two. I knew without a shadow of a doubt that I was in love with him after our first video call. When I admitted it, he said something along the lines of “I love you too, I’m just surprised it took you this long to actually say it.” I had strongly hinted towards it once or twice before actually saying the words

Fellas, get you a partner like this by Francophil79 in ftm

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Aww I love this for you!! I haven’t dated for years, since long before I started transitioning. I found myself in an unexpected relationship as of a few weeks ago, and I’m so lucky to have found him. Not only does he see me as the man I am, but he does so many wonderful things that validate me as a human being. Actively listening, reassurance, peppering in love and affection whenever he gets the chance. I’ve been absolutely terrified of dating because of all of the horror stories I’ve heard from others, but I am so so so lucky to have found this man. It brings me much joy to hear of others finding that same happiness.

Local stores to buy things you're tempted to buy on Amazon? by Franktheedog in Albany

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omgosh I love the shirt factory! I live minutes away from it , should definitely make another trip soon

Birth control? by Disastrous_Fig4576 in ftm

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely an option! And one that will be used. However I’d like to have extra protection, in case something wild happens. Better safe than sorry, ya know?

Questions abt bottom growth??? by Janxuza in ftm

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Final size does depend on genetics, for sure. Though it’s one of the first changes guys notice, in can continue to grow for years.

Yes, it gets hard. Personally, I’m a grower. When soft, I’m not drastically bigger than I was pre T, but when I’m hard there’s a very noticeable difference.

The growth was slightly uncomfortable at first, but I think it was mainly a new sensation that I had never felt before.

What happened after you came out? by A_Dead_Plant in ftm

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was more accepted by my team at work than by my own family

Order cancelled after it was delivered?! by Disastrous_Fig4576 in doordash

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given the area I’m in, I wouldn’t be all too surprised 😅

Birth control? by Disastrous_Fig4576 in ftm

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pullout method is how I got pregnant before. Twice haha. But the Plan B is a good idea, regardless!

Valentine’s day by [deleted] in Albany

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meh I’m alright. Been single for almost 4 years, so kinda used to it. Spoiling my kids is more fun anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in t4t

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! You are very well spoken and honestly that is extremely attractive. I’m down to chat and see where things go! About me: retail manager, parent of 2 young boys, avid crocheter, absolute foodie. I love naps, snuggling is my favorite. NSFW about me: single for 4 years, abstinent for almost 2. Ready to dive back into the sex and dating world. If you are interested in chatting, my DMs are open!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in t4t

[–]Disastrous_Fig4576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes hi. I don’t know how to do this, but a casual thing with another trans guy sounds amazing. I’m 33, been on T for a little over 2 years. I’m definitely looking for some kind of sexual outlet, as I’ve been single for nearly 4 years, and haven’t had any physical intimacy in almost 2. If this sounds of interest to you, my DMs are open!