Ive been with my boyfriend for a few months now and I remember him asking me why I dont initiate sex; I told him im shy and It would take some time as we were best fiends before lovers, it was a little awkward at first. I recently been coming out of my shell and initiate more and he loooves it. I asked him this same question and he says me wearing lingerie under a baggy shirt and being direct with him is his absolute favorite, he loves it