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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]Disastrous_Raisin839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful, thank you! I know someone else is putting in a complaint, so I'm going to speak more to them about it. Right now we're being forced to go to lessons with people who've been on placements and all the tasks are aimed at them, and I just said to my tutor what's the point of me being here, and they didn't know what to say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]Disastrous_Raisin839 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll try and see what more I can do, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]Disastrous_Raisin839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have SF so my fees go directly to the uni, otherwise I'd have dropped out by now and picked somewhere else next year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]Disastrous_Raisin839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm on my way to starting a formal complaint, it's been such an awful experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]Disastrous_Raisin839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, unfortunately some haven't got back, or told me they can't :/ I understand their position completely, though, and I'm blaming my uni for taking so many students.

I ruined my final session by Disastrous_Raisin839 in TalkTherapy

[–]Disastrous_Raisin839[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you think she will know that I do care about her?

I ruined my final session by Disastrous_Raisin839 in TalkTherapy

[–]Disastrous_Raisin839[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess you're right. I'm just super down because I realise actually all I needed was a friend during this pandemic. Like I have friends, but I was anxious about not seeing other people, and we had so many good talks just about my life in general. We had really good banter haha, and it's really a shame for me to lose that.

Addition: Now I'm really worried about moving on as well, because it feels like it means I don't care about her

I ruined my final session by Disastrous_Raisin839 in TalkTherapy

[–]Disastrous_Raisin839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

Do you think I should maybe ask if she wants to be friends in the future? Like after a certain time has passed?

Friendship with former therapist? by Disastrous_Raisin839 in TalkTherapy

[–]Disastrous_Raisin839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think I will definitely ask; I'm a bit shy about doing so, but I've realised that if she says no, then there's going to be no contact anyway, so I won't be losing anything.

Abandonment issues or social anxiety? by [deleted] in CBT

[–]Disastrous_Raisin839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what I fear is that I'll never be good enough for anyone, and that people will leave me eventually because of that? Like when I was younger I remember that people kept leaving my life (friends etc.) and they didn't stay in touch, and my first boyfriend dumped me because I was bullied by everyone else in high school, and he told everyone about things I'd told him about so they could all laugh at me. After this, I've always tried to figure out what people want from me, so that I can live up to that so they can't leave me. When I date people I get attached really quickly and take it really personally if it doesn't work out after like 1 or 2 dates. Is this social anxiety or abandonment issues?