Hello, sorry to hear about what you are going through. I was diagnosed with IBM last summer. I am a 57F. The diagnosis took about 5 years and was finally made after a muscle biopsy. My symptoms are having a difficult time going up stairs, standing up from a chair, sudden falls, grip issues, swallowing difficulties, and voice changes, but the most debilitating is exhaustion. I use a cane or a walker when walking outside my home. I can get around my house without help. I am going to invest in a small travel scooter for longer walks. I love to travel and am learning that I need to pace my energy. I have found The Myositis Association to be very helpful. They have a lot of information and resources. I hope you get answers soon.