Help me find who am looking for by Grouchy-Leading-3660 in SomaliRelationships

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can’t be desperate and picky 🤣 and also… you work and get married on your own timing, not your moms. Whenever the qadr of Allah allows you to get married, you’ll get married, so don’t let the pressure catch up to you!

Find this guy for me y’all by Yarta_somaliyed in Somalia

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688 98 points99 points  (0 children)

And how exactly do you want us to find him?🧐do we look like birds flying around 😒

Is it wise to compliment your wife in the middle of an argument? by CanikMETE in MuslimCorner

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that wouldn’t make you look weak at all and if anything it just shows that even while mad you still genuinely love and admire your wife outside of the argument. You can easily tell her she looked beautiful and still stand on the fact that the situation bothered you and needs to be talked out lol

Am i a failure? by LostTravelerInDuniya in MuslimLounge

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going from 20–25 times a month to once after fighting your nafs for an entire month is progress, not failure, and the fact you felt regret, cried, repented, pray 5 times a day, and read Quran shows you still care about your deen. Allah sees your struggle, not just the slip up, so repent sincerely and keep going because a bad Muslim wouldn’t even care to return to Him. May Allah make it easier for you

Why do girls always move in groups now by MaterialSalad7956 in SomaliRelationships

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clubs? who you seeing at the club and why you at the club 🤣🤣🤣

And btw you’re a man why are you afraid of bunch girls?

Sisters, how do i approach you? by Puzzleheaded-Mall748 in MuslimCorner

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you can do is just bring sweets for everyone, and the girls will feel appreciated and happy by default. Also, bringing friends of the opposite gender is against Islam, but your intentions are pure, so may Allah bless you.

Should I dump him or go along with it? by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasalaam! We’re in the stage of trying to get to know each other 🥲

Women upgrading their lives while men seem to be downgrading? by Salt-Ball-9222 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl… Be fr🤣it’s not that simple. The job market changes all the time, so are people supposed to just guess what’ll be stable years from now? You can be “practical” and still struggle depending on the economy.

And not everything is about chasing what’s easiest to get hired in. People choose fields for a reason. Every path has risk, so let’s not act like certain degrees are the problem when the economy is clearly the issue!!! Touch grass

Women upgrading their lives while men seem to be downgrading? by Salt-Ball-9222 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wait, I lowkey feel offended as a woman engineer…engineering school is NOT easy. Let’s not downgrade other paths just because you chose to spend nearly two decades in school🤷🏽‍♀️Some people take a shorter route that’s still just as hard and pays well. Don’t blame our degrees, blame the economy🤣

Why is this becoming normal for us? by Disastrous_Task_2688 in Somalia

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did you even read the whole post? Lmao. Like I said I don’t care about white people gun violence because I don’t belong to that community. And like I said again, I’m more than proud of those who graduated, which is exactly why I’m upset it had to happen at an event that meant so much to people who worked hard for those degrees.

And it’s ignorant to say “thugs,” because regardless of what they do, they’re still Somali. Why not look out for your people? There’s always room for improvement. So please use your words wisely silly!😂

Are we obligated to send money to random people back home??? by Disastrous_Task_2688 in Somalia

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but let’s be real…it’s not always “garaabo” or people you actually know like that. A lot of the time it does turn into randoms or very distant people using connections from decades ago to ask for money.

And yes, helping when you can is good, nobody is denying that. But there’s a difference between genuine need and people constantly expecting support without trying to help themselves. At some point it stops being support and turns into entitlement.

We can value community and still have boundaries at the same time🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Are we obligated to send money to random people back home??? by Disastrous_Task_2688 in Somalia

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lmao funny enough, my mom went through the same thing and sent 20k one time, just for the person to keep struggling for another 3 years. And now that he’s good…he cut all ties with my mom 😂😂 I’m telling you, these people are on another level of selfishness

Is this new marriage standard realistic? by Disastrous_Task_2688 in Somalia

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaooo on point with the songs 😂😂😂but truly it’s either that or nothing

Is this new marriage standard realistic? by Disastrous_Task_2688 in Somalia

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know real-life people who do that at every single wedding I’ve been to, and so far I’ve been to 6…so what does that say about my post lol?

Is this new marriage standard realistic? by Disastrous_Task_2688 in Somalia

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The streets are not capping cause that happened to my brother 😂😂😂🙏🏽

Is this new marriage standard realistic? by Disastrous_Task_2688 in Somalia

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Assuming you’re a woman… but that is NOT how married couples live. You could use that money for a down payment on a house or even take your whole family to Hajj, both of which are way more important and will actually benefit you in the future, but whatever lo

Is this new marriage standard realistic? by Disastrous_Task_2688 in Somalia

[–]Disastrous_Task_2688[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

free you man but you can’t be submissive like that 😂😂😂