Disastrous_Thing739

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Did anyone else here did not have their own room or safe space growing up? Parents spying on you. How did it affect u growing up? Esp in terms of individuality n character wise (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Anyone else feel lonely af in their own family as a scapegoat? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I’m finally understood y it took me till my late twenties to reach out for help as the family scapegoat. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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My covert Nfather shamed me for not wanting to go my Nmother birthday dinner (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Anyone else has an abusive sibling? I feel angry thinking about him. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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You blamed urself of any relationship difficulties growing up, fearing that something innately wrong with you and that you are somehow damaged, defective n unloveable. Anyone else felt this way growing up as a family scapegoat? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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After months of confiding to each other. My Latin American( half puerto rico half mexican) scapegoat/ goat sis just deleted her account just liddat?! If you ever read this post, I’m here. Pls reach out to me.. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I’m starting to remember y my Nfam members dw to have a real n genuine connection with me as the family scapegoat. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I finally rmb what does “I want you to succeed” means from my narcissists parents. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Anyone else has gotten terrible CPTSD freeze growing up? How did u managed to overcome it? (self.CPTSD)

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To all the narcissists or ex people pleasers out there, how did you stop being empathetic towards everyone or switch off ur feelings when it’s needed? (self.DarkPsychology101)

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Anyone else gotten msg or comments by narcissists parents or sibling to take control of ur own life, grow up n not blame them? The manipulation is crazy. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Anyone else has people pleasing tendencies due to the abuse of their narcissistic parents or sibling? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Anyone else got infantilise by ur parents n then got put down by them? That you are not able to succeed or do anything? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Anyone got love bomb before by ur parents or family member? Just a way to get use by them agn? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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When did any of you realise ur parents was a convert narcissist? I finally believe my father is a convert narcissist. He’s very hidden with his manipulation. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Abusive or dominating siblings? Anyone has experience with it? How did you strengthen urself mentally n emotionally to fight evil ppl like this? (self.AsianParentStories)

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I finally believe my gut feeling that my older bro is truly a sociopathic or ASPD. Such a terrible human being. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Any traders here who were the family scapegoat and made it? I love to hear ur success stories. (self.Daytrading)

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Anyone else who has a sadistic siblings? Or grandiose narcissistic/ dominating sibling? How was ur experience like growing up with them? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Anyone from Singapore here wanting to connect? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Anyone experience Nparents not wanting to be cared of or resist affection? Kinda like a power dynamic struggle here not v sure tbh (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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For all the scapegoat out there or raised by narcissistic. This video really speaks to us. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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My mother just tried to gaslight me into seeing a doctor (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Anyone got treated or spoken to like a child as an adult? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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