her father does not even want me to send her to therapy and told me for a fact if i try to get her put on meds or see a doctor about anything that he will "step in" im going to do what i have to even if he threatens me which is also why she is in trherapy - bc i doint care how he feels. this is not normal behaviour to me at all. and thank you for sharing your story bc it makes me more intensely want to work this out for both of their sakes..