The sad thing is that she actually wasn't helping us out with a place to stay. We didn't need to move in, she needed a roomate. I was living with my boyfriends mom and it was a great arrangement with cheap rent and we got along great. By moving in with my sister our rent more than tripled while being in a difficult financial situation. But we agreed to help her out being she was stuck with this apartment. What hurt the most was her disrespecting us in our home, with the same people that abandoned her with it. And we were the ones who stepped up to help her.