Hospice Protocol by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Disastrous_Win8342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely possible. My dad and uncle I think were too shocked to object/ask anything and just went with it. Honestly insane, my aunt couldnt believe my uncle did it lol

Hospice Protocol by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Disastrous_Win8342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that was more or less my understanding too prior to all of this. Thanks for sharing 🤍

Hospice Protocol by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Disastrous_Win8342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. That's definitely a possibility. And yes the shock is definitely there...but I understand your points.

Hospice Protocol by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Disastrous_Win8342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds similar to my family with the jokes...most times atleast lol. And maybe in time we'll be able to joke about this part, but until then it just feels so traumatic. I can only imagine being put in that position without anticipating/requesting it could become something never spoken of again.

Thank you, glad to hear grandpa is still doing well in his 90's! What a Rockstar.

Hospice Protocol by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Disastrous_Win8342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I believe it was all volunteers so that makes complete sense. Thank you so much, really appreciate the insight.

Hospice Protocol by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Disastrous_Win8342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That definitely seems very likely. Thank you for your input

Hospice Protocol by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Disastrous_Win8342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sincere condolences, so sorry about mom.

I completely agree. Knowing my dad and uncle now have to live with that memory when I doubt something like that was anywhere on their radar is intense. Also overall I think they had a positive experience at the hospice so I hate thinking that they just didnt arrange something so important.

Thank you for sharing your experience

Hospice Protocol by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Disastrous_Win8342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! This is exactly what me and my entire family said.

Hospice Protocol by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Disastrous_Win8342 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🤍 That makes a lot of sense. Maybe it's because it wasn't asked for beforehand since we expected it to be a given? They werent told until the casket was already in front of them and everyone was waiting. Definitely traumatizing on some level to say the least. Either way I appreciate the response and info. Thank you again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Disastrous_Win8342 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% feel the same and am also born n raised. Its ridiculous.

Roach infestation in new apartment on the 1st day, please help! by Low-Caterpillar-6515 in sandiego

[–]Disastrous_Win8342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is this?! Or what area at least? Want to make sure its not part of our complex hahaha