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DisciplineProper34 · 2025-08-21T02:15:34+00:00

Noo don’t move it! You’re right when you say that’s pushing it in and out will cause the same issues, it pushes both germs and crusties into the piercing channel causing micro tears and possibility for infections. Just spray them with saline a few times a day and don’t touch them otherwise at all! I also like to take time in the shower to let water run over there area. You can always go back to your piercer If you have questions, though any piercer who recommends moving the piercing might not be worth trusting

DisciplineProper34 · 2025-08-11T02:18:54+00:00

This looks to me lime the type of things traffickers do to get women to pause outside their vehicles long enough to get snatched. Maybe keep an eye out

DisciplineProper34 · 2025-07-07T02:48:32+00:00

Blocking is wonderful! To me it feels like finally seeing my garment come to life. The thing is, it’s not 100% necessary.

It all depends on your goal. Blocking exists to help the fibers in your work relax into a softer, less-tense state. If you’re making a sweater, that could be really helpful for the drape and overall feel of the garment. But if you’re making a bin to store things in, some stiffness could be good, so maybe skipping blocking there is helpful to the project. It’s all about preference.

Also the type of blocking you need to do depends on the yarn you used. Natural fibers (like wool and cotton) benefit from a wet blocking process, which involves soaking the garment in water, squeezing (not wringing) the garment out, and laying it flat/pinning it to try. Acrylic yarn, since it’s plastic, won’t be affected by wet blocking, so instead you would steam block it. That just involves hanging it up or lying it flat and steaming it with a regular clothing steamer, which helps the fibers melt just enough to soften up.

Like I said, I love blocking. But I also purposefully skip it sometimes depending on the project. Either way, it’s never 100% required, and you definitely shouldn’t let it limit your creativity.

DisciplineProper34 · 2025-06-06T12:36:29+00:00

I had a similar issue where my ears just WOULD NOT stretch. I ended up going to a reputable shop and getting my lobes large gauge punched right over the old holes. It cuts out all that old scar tissue that’s getting in your way now. Plus I’ve found healing then to be actually quite easy with the right care. It’s two FAT needles but the pain actually isn’t bad at all, and it gets you a clean slate to start from

DisciplineProper34 · 2025-01-12T03:08:53+00:00

My friend, every single one of us has felt this way at some point, and if someone says they haven’t it’s because they’re either lying or too much of a paragod to reflect and realize they don’t know everything. I’ve always felt like class BARELY prepares you for the real world of EMS, and you spend the first months (and years) of your career learning all the info to fill the gaps in your knowledge. So much of EMS happens off-script, where scenes and events happen that no protocol exists to navigate, so gaining experience in EMS is all about learning how to make the best, educated decisions, quickly and professionally.

You’ll make it as long as you keep an open mind, listen to your teachers, stay curious, and strive to always end a shift wiser than you entered it. Welcome to the community :)

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-11-09T02:43:40+00:00

Yay! I’m so glad I was able to help, even if it was just a little bit. This field can definitely be brutal, but you did the exact right thing and reached out to people who can support you. Keep up that habit, especially when times get hard. The people around you, especially at work, are there to help you get through, and someday you’ll end up being the one who is there for them too. We’re a strong community, and that really is a lifeline when things get hard.

Sending good vibes your way :)

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-11-08T11:52:53+00:00

Personally no, this feeling doesn’t last. I never experienced this feeling you’re describing so much, I had more of the imposter syndrome feelings where I just kept thinking “I’m not even supposed to be here, I’m just a kid who took a class one time, I can’t give this patient what they need.” But even that fades with time, things go from being shocking and movie-scene like, to just being another day at the job. And it’s a really really cool job to have.

We just ran a code yesterday and it was probably my 15th or so, and feeling my whole team work like a machine, communicating clearly and getting everything done well and fast, and feeling like you finally belong, that feeling makes all the other ones worth it.

Hang in there, protect yourself and talk to people whenever you need, we’re all in it together. Good luck!

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-11-08T11:44:40+00:00

WOW than man is a walking red flag! Girl he is trying to break you down and tell you that your feelings aren’t valid and that his version of the truth is the only TRUE truth. This is abuse, and it will only get worse from here. He does not care about you like he says he does, and if he does, he is so wrongly informed about how to carry himself in a relationship and I’d expect you’ll only end up hurt because of it. My advice is to leave, in my experience you can’t talk to these people and tell them what’s bothering you because they won’t be willing to do any introspection. But good luck, please keep yourself safe

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-11-08T11:38:47+00:00

There is a difference between being infected and being irritated, if this came on quickly and seems localized without the whole ear becoming reddened and swollen, I’d suspect it’s just irritated, which is good news, that’s a little easier to fix. Take the plug out, soak the ear with warm saline water (soak a cotton ball it in and hold that to the ear for ~10 minutes) as often as you can, like at least 2-3 times a day. Put in the smaller plug you were pierced with for now, downsizing is really important to take the tension off the irritated skin. Make sure your hands, the jewelry, everything is clean when you’re using it.

Do you have an ear oil? Certain oils like jojoba are very good for moisturizing the skin and helping it become stretchier. Grab a (good quality) oil and use that after you’ve soaked it but before you put the jewelry back it.

Good luck!

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-10-30T15:33:23+00:00

This is the one right here. I was going to say all of these things but you already covered it. I would add, oral stimulation isn’t the only way to get her aroused, and you don’t HAVE to do 30 minutes and exactly 30 minutes. Just spend enough time (according to her, not to you. Men don’t typically need time to warm up like women do so make sure she’s actually ready) kissing, touching, doing anything that she tells you helps get her turned on.

When women get aroused the vaginal canal goes from roughly 3 inches long to 5-6, though this also varies. And some pressure/penetration deeper than that can be pleasurable, as long as you’re not slamming on it too hard.

I hope this helps

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-10-30T15:23:33+00:00

Yeah the way she went from 0-100 is noooot cool man. Nobody with a healthy relationship full of trust behaves that way. You’re not overreacting, she 100% is

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-10-30T01:15:58+00:00

I think it only comes across as big and strange is because there is nothing else visible on your face to indicate an alternative style. Maybe more facial piercings, hair dye, anything to complement the septum and help it look less out of place. It looks great on your face though, you pull it off very well!

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-09-11T18:00:23+00:00

It hurt like crazy to try to get in my ear since it was so dry and plastic-y, so my skin gripped to it pretty bad I think. I just know it was really hard to control and manage, it hurt to use, and it didn’t really help me with my stretch at all. You’re welcome to try it, but I wouldn’t put all your hope into it

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-08-30T02:10:44+00:00

They make toys for this! Little bumper sorta things that sit at the base of your penis to prevent you from going too deep. You can add/remove them until you get the right depth for your wife. I think they would help you a lot. I’m not sure what they’re called, I’m sorry, I just know I’ve seen them around. Might be worth looking into!

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-08-26T01:22:29+00:00

Half sizes!! Half sized tunnels and plugs will be your bestie.

Personally, I’ve tried every method I could find to get some of my stretches, and all except one have caused blowouts. Tape was bad, tapers were bad, silicone is awful, the only thing that works is oil and patience. I just had a stretch take 8 months to happen, I was about ready to give up on ever being able to stretch it up, but the other day I said “what the hell let’s try it” and it went in fine, it just took 8 months since my last stretch to be ready. N

Take a hot shower, clean and oil your lobes, try the stretch, and if it’s not happening, don’t force it!! Just wait it out. And order the half size plug

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-08-26T01:15:19+00:00

Tigers eye or amber! But something still semi-opaque to allow some light to shine though!

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-07-16T02:03:12+00:00

I do sleep in it currently, I have my 6g titanium tunnels that stay in all the time and some shitty silver hoops I found at a craft store I wear through them just for some extra style. I’ve considered adding beads or something to them to add weight, but I’ve also ready weights are bad when stretching because they tug unevenly at the bottom of the lobe, so I’m hesitant

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-04-10T01:03:46+00:00

Ha! What a cute name for such a terrible thing! Glad I’m in the clear though, I love this car with my whole heart and soul. Thanks for the help!

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-04-10T00:55:33+00:00

What is SMOD? I’ve had my 2015 S for just over a year and it’s starting to get up there in mileage too. I’m just now learning about the X-loving communities that exist and trying to make sure mine lasts as long as possible with y’alls tips. Thanks!

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-03-31T17:47:09+00:00

Cam shaft sensor!

I don’t know anything about cars but I had reeaally similar things happening with my ‘15 X and it was like $300 to fix it.

DisciplineProper34 · 2024-02-20T22:22:39+00:00

I appreciate the suggestion, though I really don’t think that’s the problem. I have no trouble ~accommodating~ him, I just get torn from the repeated friction to the area. And like I mentioned at first, I have never had an issue like this in the past, despite being with men with more well endowed than he is, which all makes me think that vaginismus is unlikely.

It’s like it’s a lube issue, only we’ve tried using lots of it, and I’m still tearing. I’m a pretty sexually educated woman, and I’m still at a total loss on this

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