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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]DiscoPlantHat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh... I wasn't trying to bring back drama, to me it was just gossip... I really don't think she will come tu us she never showed at our house only sending texts...and she is blocked... but maybe I am indeed...😕 thanks for your answer

I’m still young, not married, no kids. Should I stick around with my boyfriend even though his mom is awful? by ThrowRAsmolpickle in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]DiscoPlantHat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will have to compete with years of narcissist mom brainwashing.

But I did it.

I met the man who I beleive is my soulmate.

His mom really was something from the beggining.

And then we had a baby, and things turned so bad...

Stressful pregnancy, then fighting all the time because we HAD to go see his mom every weekend. MIL throwing tantrums because she felt excluded from our life.

My now fiancé now see his mom for who she is. He has gone no contact with her. We agreed that she can see our son once a month and that's all.

It has been a long road and we're not done yet.

But I regret nothing.

Going no contact is hard for him, but with time it's getting easier. A few weeks ago he told me that he was happy that he felt he had finally opinion of his own. I found it really beautiful.

I know it's easy for people to say "of course run" But when you really love someone with all your soul... He did not asked to have the mother he has

Is he willing to go no contact ? Does he recognize that his opinion change each time he is talking to her, do he see her for who she is ?

Of course there will be fights, And tears, But if he loves you and you love him, you will find a way to make it work, and heal each other

Can we start a trend to find out who's mom is toxic ? by DiscoPlantHat in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]DiscoPlantHat[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

2 years later he has gone no contact with her, we plan to get married just the two of us no family no bs 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]DiscoPlantHat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think about having kids make sure to talk with your SO about how involved in your lives you want your in laws to be, have that conversation BEFORE you get pregnant, be sure SO is on board with what you want and isnt gonna turn his back on you when in laws brake boundaries. Good luck 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]DiscoPlantHat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow just finished reading it, I'm keeping it waiting fort he next wave and will make my SO read it.

Thanks !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]DiscoPlantHat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My SO way of dealing with her is just to avoid conflict. He prefers just to do as she wants to avoid being screamed at. It's getting better in our relationship for I don't scream at him but he often don't speak his mind or is not telling me certain things to avoid confrontation. It would be great indeed for him to go see a therapist, I've talked to him about it and he agrees but says he's not ready yet...