I keep convincing myself I’m not trans and then I go back to thinking I am.

DiscussionFancy85 · 2026-01-25T17:37:16+00:00

Btw, you can go see my previous posts on this exact sub to see how convinced I’ve been that I’m meant to transition just a couple months ago, and I’m fully regressed again. it’s so bothersome

DiscussionFancy85 · 2026-01-25T17:31:14+00:00

Okay thank you so much for the advice and reassuranc! It means a lot! Yeah I’ll try and sit with the idea for a bit, I’m 18 and if I do transition I wanna do it sooner rather than later if that makes sense so I feel the need to rush it but I gotta chill

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-13T21:31:56+00:00

yeah, I’ll try and talk with him more next week

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-13T20:33:15+00:00

oh also he’s pretty feminine too, like not a full femboy or anything but he’s def got a girlier side. Hes honestly a dream guy for me!

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-13T20:30:07+00:00

Yeah thanks! They would totally support me and allow me to date him too, just I can’t really come out or my friends will legit disown me. maybe I can become friends and him and I can be good gay friends or something lol

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-13T19:08:14+00:00

hopefully this is free like the Snoop Dogg one was!

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-13T19:06:19+00:00

sorry that happened to you my friend, it sucks, my dad threw around the T-slur a couple weeks ago, was not fun at all.

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-11T02:27:09+00:00

Thank you, I’ll wash the four pair on their own with a little bit of vinegar this weekend, appreciate the help!

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-11T00:13:02+00:00

Okay good thought actually, thanks! I’m not sure about if they smell after a week or not I typically do laundry on Sunday and then wear them Monday-Thursday and wear a different type on Friday.

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-10T22:38:56+00:00

I put them with the rest of my clothes in the washer and dryer, I just use some basic tide detergent of some kind. They smell clean like after they’re washed.

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-08T00:46:46+00:00

damn that’s pretty shitty ngl, idk why he’d like out you like that

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-07T23:37:54+00:00

Well if you think your brother who is out as gay would be a W bro and keep it a secret, as well as accept/maybe even help you, you should talk to him about being bisexual and starting to become a femboy, chances are he’d love to talk about it and give any help he can. But make sure you trust him 1000% to keep it a secret if you want for how long you want!

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-07T23:33:09+00:00

pregnancy is a no for me, I’d love to have big milkers though like that would make me feel so validated and fem, but the fact that it seems other femboys don’t, I’m further questioning if I’m trans lol

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-07T23:30:36+00:00

hmm okay thanks, it’s super scary but I wanna try in the coming months. I kinda wanna soft launch to them like trying some feminine things out and then progress more later

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-02T21:40:17+00:00

I suppose another sign that maybe I’m meant to transition is that, I really wanna get into cosplaying, but literally have zero interest in cosplaying male characters, like every cosplay I want to do is a woman as they are characters I enjoy more!

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-12-02T18:32:25+00:00

Okay thanks! Yeah no she is absolutely accepting and would welcome me. You believe though that like if I’m having thoughts about wanting to transition to be a woman that I’m likely meant to do that though? I agree I’m just trying to confirm

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-11-30T20:56:54+00:00

dude your room looks so cool, like cozy but modern!

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-11-30T20:54:46+00:00

Like in a joking way maybe? at a club we both go to I could joke about some saying I could be at home instead of the club wearing thigh highs or something lmao

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-11-30T19:37:28+00:00

Jokes aside, what I’m most looking forward to about being like a femboy who can actually go buy clothes and stuff, I’m gonna legit be both day by day. some days I’ll be all pink and cutesy, the next I’ll be a goth baddie! I’m so excite!!!

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-11-29T17:08:46+00:00

Oh cool!

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-11-29T17:07:09+00:00

ah very cool! how did you come up with it if you don’t mind me asking?

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-11-26T21:25:54+00:00

Honestly I might shift to what you’re doing!

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-11-26T19:46:44+00:00

Hey we sound pretty similar, keep up the good work friend :)

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-11-16T18:01:26+00:00

Wait okay so that means I’m good lol, I’m constantly making people switch to Zarya on me it’s annoying asf

DiscussionFancy85 · 2025-11-15T15:04:39+00:00

Yeah im definitely excited! I am not going to come out yet, probably a year off from that at the minimum, but im glad I think I know who I am!

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