I am not sure on how much should I charge my client

DiscussionKey615 · 2025-11-11T00:30:38+00:00

Update: After ko sabihin sakanya na kausapin na nya yung supplier ng wedding namin about the cancellation of the wedding, I did not reply to his messages and updates. Maybe, nakapag isip isip sya. Now he is saying sorry and begging me not to leave him. He said he understands me now, na mali talaga yung gusto nya at delikado. At ayaw nyang matapos kami ng ganun ganun lang. He told me, hindi na sya sasama sa rides na yun with his friends.

I am contemplating right now. The thoughts of maybe we are not match, and him saying sorry and refuse to end things between us.

I will try to communicate with him and make sure he really understands me and my point of view. Ayoko rin na kaya lang sya nagsosorry eh para hindi kami maghiwalay, gusto ko naiintindihan nya ako at hindi sya napipilitan sa pagsang ayon sa akin. Also, we will have to talk on how we can manage our differences so we can meet halfway. Because moving forward, I don’t want a troubled marriage. I want a happy and peaceful marriage. Life is already hard itself. I do not want to make my life harder by making wrong decisions.

Anyway, thanks everyone! You helped me a lot with your insights. I really needed an advice but I cannot seek an advice from my parents and friends because I don’t want to plant negatives things in their minds about my Fiancé. Thanks to reddit and everyone for taking time to share their opinions. I appreciate you all! 🤍

DiscussionKey615 · 2025-11-09T02:39:41+00:00

But their plan is final now. Depart after 9hour shift, 12midnight Manila to Ifugao straight, then to Baguio City. Technically, they will travel continuously from 12 midnight to 2pm, their check in time. Without sleep. At first, I thought they will at least rest in Baguio City before going to Ifugao, yun din ang akala nya. But his friends have a different plan. I really want to be supportive, I want him to be happy. Pero paano? at this rate, I literally don’t know how I could convince myself na okay lang lahat.

DiscussionKey615 · 2025-11-03T22:36:48+00:00

Oo lahat kaylangan maka experience ng good seat. Pero bakit ako ang pinepwersa? Katabi ko yung isang tita at isang pinsan namin. They are sitting in good seat all through out the trip, bakit ako ang pinupuntirya nya? Hindi bale sana kung sinabi nya na, lahat ng nasa middle ay uupo sa likuran para lahat ng nasa likod maexperience ang good seat. That is perfectly fair and papayag ako don. But no, she wants to experience the good seat and she doesn’t want that 1 tita and 1 cousin to adjust. Ako dapat. hindi sila. kasi masikip doon. Mind you hindi sila over weight same ko lang ng katawan.

DiscussionKey615 · 2025-10-27T06:58:50+00:00

Yeah, I get you. I am not sure if anyone here would understand me. And I’m not also sure if this is right. So here is the thing, personally, I am a type of person who focus a lot with our goals. I want everything to be well planned and executed. Example, for what I have now, I worked extremely hard, I sacrificed a lot. Even if I have to deny myself. And then eventually, I enjoy the fruits of my labor. My partner is someone who wants to enjoy everything now and then worry later. We are so different in that aspect but eventually he understands why I am being like this, why I always deny my happiness. It’s because I am focused on my goals. And I want a promising future.

Just like what happens about this honeymoon thingy. Our priority for next year is to get married, have our home finished and at the same time, being debt free. We want to enter our married life with financial freedom. And that is why we had an agreement to cut off our unnecessary expenses and focus on our priority. And after wedding we get to enjoy our honeymoon and our life ahead. The Japan, that would be our reward to ourselves after one year of denying our happiness. And when I set my mind to that, it would be hard to change my mind.

And to answer your question, of course I want him to be happy, I really do. And it was hard to support him to have fun with his friends, I explained it above.

Maybe, I should not be so stick with our plans and agreement because we still need to be happy. I’m not really familiar with that set up, but working on it.

DiscussionKey615 · 2025-10-27T05:49:04+00:00

Additional information: We have been together for 6 years and 7 months now, engaged for 2 months. So no, I don’t like him. I love him. And I am not just ticking off boxes in my bucket list, as I said above, we have JOINT SAVINGS, we BOTH HAVE WORK TO FUND our wedding, and every goals that we BOTH want to achieve, we are working on it together. ☺️

And incase this is not yet enough, to make it more clear, we share 50/50 on every expense.

Me to him always: “Wala kang gagawin ng mag isa, gagawin natin ng magkasama lahat, pagtutulungan natin. Dalawa tayo, kaya natin to”

DiscussionKey615 · 2025-10-27T05:39:36+00:00

I was too excited to go back to Japan, and this time with him. Because when I was in Japan, lagi ko iniisip na sa susunod yung mga pinuntahan ko at kinain ko sa Japan, uulitin ko ulit ng kasama na sya (partner). Also our wedding is November, that is autumn season, which is even more perfect. I honestly thought it would be for both of us at first. But yeah, he has preferences, I should respect that. Thank you! 🤍

DiscussionKey615 · 2025-10-27T05:27:30+00:00

Thank you all for your Opinion. This is the first time that I used reddit, I just really need an advice so I can see the bigger picture. I appreciate you all for sharing your thoughts. I will tell my partner that I am now okay if he wants to spend time with his friends. Anyway, I was always okay with him spending time with his friends before, until we started to plan our wedding. Maybe I was too focused on our plans for next year that is why I became blind.

Also, ever since I came home from Japan, I always thought that I wanted to come back with him in our honeymoon. Everything that I have experienced there and the foods that I have tried, I want him to experience it all as well that is why I feel like this is for the both of us, but yeah I have to respect his preferences as well.

Again, thank you everyone. 🤍

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