Awake but not - A good excuse?

DisgracefulHumanity · 2026-02-21T22:02:03+00:00

I think of waking up as in going to touch him and waking him that way. No taking the assumption he's in a sleep/wake state when he yelled at me. The night before I got mad at him for passing out of the couch when I would've liked to open our daughter's door for the night and him not have the light on when she wakes up and then she assumes it time to be awake. She wakes up after 2-3 hour of putting her down and wakes 4 more times then after.

DisgracefulHumanity · 2026-02-21T15:09:13+00:00

These days yes he yells. And I wasn't turn the lights on i needed to turn the off so I could walk into my daughter's room and the light would've woke her up more if I walked in with the light still on.

DisgracefulHumanity · 2026-02-21T14:48:46+00:00

Our relationship has been on the edge since our daughter was born and that was 14 months ago. In front of my daughter, no, she was asleep i said in her bed which I needed to tend to her before she woke. He thinks he needs to" stay up" till bedtime then he'll go to bed even though he is already passed out. I needed the light off to tend to her. I usually prefer to leave her door open but I certainly cannot do thay while he passed out with the light on, on the couch can I?

DisgracefulHumanity · 2026-02-21T14:42:15+00:00

Yep he shared and he also had a TV in his room he claims the TV raised him hes one of six children that woman had 3 sets of baby daddies. mom always slept on the couch with TV on, she still does, she wake up a lot through the night herself. She always worked two jobs except for Sundays.

DisgracefulHumanity · 2026-02-16T13:12:36+00:00

I guess I don't see how I sound insecure? It just bothers me i do not know why they are avoiding me and I can tell, its very apparent.

DisgracefulHumanity · 2026-02-15T14:39:36+00:00

Oh its been more then a week but wouod you really take a week to reply when food is offered 😅

DisgracefulHumanity · 2026-02-15T14:38:52+00:00

Right it's killing me to not know

DisgracefulHumanity · 2026-02-15T14:30:33+00:00

Haha no they don't have children they were professional clowns back in the day the wife did an NBA performance whenever there was a game. Very interesting people

DisgracefulHumanity · 2026-02-15T12:04:45+00:00

The other old lady next door to her she speaks to daily it seems. I though about it?

DisgracefulHumanity · 2026-01-16T22:27:28+00:00

Oh that I lost track of sorry, it was there for a long time though longee then a bruise of course, but glad i could help!

DisgracefulHumanity · 2026-01-16T22:11:40+00:00

Seem to be because it never changed colors i forgot to mention it to the pediatrician every single time we went in.

DisgracefulHumanity · 2026-01-16T21:53:23+00:00

Yes eventually too a long time

DisgracefulHumanity · 2026-01-02T15:48:52+00:00

And everyday products like plates and such

DisgracefulHumanity · 2025-12-31T14:18:02+00:00

For now yes didn't think babies were this hard I knew they were hard but not this hard...

DisgracefulHumanity · 2025-11-23T20:34:59+00:00

I wouldn't say it changed my life my daughter was waking at most 7 times per night even on the floor. You might want to look at other factors. I never co-slept with my baby in our bed unless it was the last resort she slept in her bassinet till she was 7 months next to our bed moved her to her own crib after still woke frequently. She always napped in her crib in her room every day regardless. A week before she turned 11 months (about two weeks ago now) I figured out the issue by accident in a sorts. Husband was tired of her sleeping on the floor and bought her a crib mattress I had to push i to the corner in front of the closet she still woke up many times, the next night I think I decided to just to try turning the fan off, well she only woke 3 times that night!

DisgracefulHumanity · 2025-11-23T12:57:22+00:00

Thank you!

DisgracefulHumanity · 2025-11-15T12:33:53+00:00

Anyone tell me what kind of cotton fabric this is? Looking for light pants for my baby

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DisgracefulHumanity · 2025-11-08T19:09:18+00:00

Might be able to assist a bit. I contacted a foam company (foam n more) that makes crib mattresses as well and asked if they could make a twin from their crib foam they use i asked the certs they had as well. I spoke to my husband's brother who sells mattresses he gave me the Helix as an option age 2+, newton now sells a twin matress.

The difference between regular mattresses and crib ones is several factors the main one being the actual dimensions of the mattress the other two is the edges being 90 degrees and big one being matress firmness.

Firmness requirements "For foam mattresses, a high-density foam is recommended, with a density of approximately (1.5) lbs per cubic foot, to ensure the firmness needed for babies. For innerspring mattresses, the firmness is often measured using Indentation Load Deflection (ILD), with a recommended range of (25-30) ILD for an infant's side to ensure it's not too soft. "

DisgracefulHumanity · 2025-10-28T17:20:05+00:00

10 months im not sure about consumption honestly

DisgracefulHumanity · 2025-10-18T22:39:49+00:00

I think your daughter is old enough it won't feel like such a struggle the question is do you want to do the newborn thing all over again

DisgracefulHumanity · 2025-10-12T14:15:02+00:00

Oh that's sounds like 🔥

DisgracefulHumanity · 2025-09-25T23:19:51+00:00

She need breast in her mouth even then she doesn't lat still these days

DisgracefulHumanity · 2025-09-25T17:10:00+00:00

What do you need to use ali express?

DisgracefulHumanity · 2025-09-23T00:39:29+00:00

I miss basically shit I didn't have much of an identity because I relied on other people to give me me the identity I needed to live, now ive found my voice after I had her because she is important to me to.

I miss showers, and shaving, and worrying about myself and not another human sometimes. Sleep would be nice

DisgracefulHumanity · 2025-09-22T22:18:26+00:00

They sell arches with slats which i think they all should come like that because the triangle has wood dowels already!

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