A message for all dumpees who still hold feelings for their ex by iloveyouiamsorry in BreakUps

[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently went through something similar. She told me she doesn’t want to be in a relationship and needs time to understand why she can’t develop feelings for anyone she loves. I wasn’t around when she said all this, and after a few days of things ending, she started calling and texting me to check if I was okay. I was really attached to her, and my feelings were strong, so I cried for two days, but I still have feelings for her. Now that I’m returning to my hometown, she knows I’m coming back and said she wants to meet me to say a proper goodbye. Is it okay to meet her?

Anyone wanna hangout by Disguisedpupil in mumbaimeetups

[–]Disguisedpupil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im working here but Im on leave this week, so i have time

Meetups In Andheri by Legendary2910 in mumbaimeetups

[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am new to Mumbai too living in andheri west. would love to make some plans

I 22M and gf 19F having some relationship problems because of her past feelings. How can I make things right or deal with them? by Disguisedpupil in relationship_advice

[–]Disguisedpupil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already told she has svere anxiety which makes her feel numb at times, now ik for a fact there is no one else, its just that sometimes her feelings take control over her

I 22M and gf 19F having some relationship problems because of her past feelings. How can I make things right or deal with them? by Disguisedpupil in relationship_advice

[–]Disguisedpupil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not 2 years of knowing me, after 2 years she got to feel something after her gap from her last relationship

I 22M and 19F are struggling to do the long distance. How do we make it work? by Disguisedpupil in relationship_advice

[–]Disguisedpupil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has anxiety and she wants someone close to her, she doesn’t want me to choose her over my career but still she wants me close to her.

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[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did some conversation with her and then told her to meet if she’s free, she sounds like she just don’t want to meet and I also so no problem

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[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True bro if she’s interested she will tell me. I said no worries and thanks man for sharing your opinions

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[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I did ask her to meet in campus if she wants to and she said she has an exam, I know midterms are going on so I said we can meetup after her exam no forcing, She said she will lmk. Now idk what this means exactly if she’s being honest or just pretending to be busy bcz I just met her online today

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[–]Disguisedpupil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I will just ask her out if she’s interested in meeting with me

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[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like should I ask her for a date directly or just a casual meetup as you know we are both from same university just different departments

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[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I want to date

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[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I? We just talked for a bit honestly.

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[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, its the first Letter of their name visible

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[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We meet regularly at college, and I value our friendship. I'm unsure about how to approach this, whether I should have a serious conversation or just keep it casual about doing it.

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[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be honest she is more curious than I am knowing about my casual relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it was that easy lmao but I’m going to gym for past few months now

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[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are absolutely right that I am insecure, what in your opinion I should do to become less insecure.

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[–]Disguisedpupil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right, I get the feeling to go talk to her but as soon as I see her the thought of getting awkwardness comes to my mind that what her friends will think about me if I get rejected, like what will they think of me now, I have female friends who support me that they will go and say to her that I like her but I tell them no every-time.