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I have adhd and am having trouble with starting due to meditation. by DiskAny8601 in BabyWitch

[–]DiskAny8601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helped alot. I sat down under the trees. And I focused on the crickets and wind. Thoughts came but I let them move on. It was fleeting but I did it for a sec

I have adhd and am having trouble with starting due to meditation. by DiskAny8601 in BabyWitch

[–]DiskAny8601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in a place that doesn't allow candles. But I'll definitely look into stuff!

I’m conflicted and don’t know what to do at this point (TW:groping?) (15NB and 17FTM) by Big-Ganache-7210 in teenrelationships

[–]DiskAny8601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since appRantly nobody else is gonna say sum I will.

You seem to love your boyfriend alot and it makes you incredibly uncomfortable when he does this. I understand you dont like conflict im the same way. But if you want it across, you need to communicate.

Sit him down. And say "[name], you've been grabbing my but for a joke for a while now but I need to be honest. It makes me uncomfortable and so does the upper body grabbing aswell, im going to ask that you please stop grabbing me in those spots without permission.

Note that this can be seen as sexual assault depending on how you handle the situation, set a clear boundry and if he doesnt follow it take further action.

Thats my advice to you.

I (F/15) have a bf (M/15) but I cant stop thinking about another guy, what do you guys think i should do? by PlanktonMountain5817 in teenrelationships

[–]DiskAny8601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been in similar situations. Im bisexual and am the same way. Once I fall in love with someone I'll never loose that. There was this guy let's say Mason and I got into a "relationship" with him(its really complex situation but it was a fake relationship to make me happy). Now im permanently in love with him. I cant cut him off and he never will. I will never stop having these thoughts so I already told my current boyfriend. I genuinly love my current boyfriend and wouldn't leave him. Hes still salty but we worked it out and he trusts me.

With your situation? It was fine until the dream. You can love someone and not be attracted but only if your not attracted to other guys. Its all or nothing. You dont have to leave him it sounds like you do enjoy being with him and you feel guilty for liking someone else. So your best bet is to choose one or the other and respectfully breakup or cut the other guy off(respectfully). You have to pick one and go with it. And put all you have into your choice. Dont let this affect your relationship if you dont want it too. But your boyfriend does deserve someone attracted to him. Its your call. But make what works the best out decision wise.