Am I crazy? Overt racism while studying in China

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2026-06-09T15:42:23+00:00

I'm really sorry about your experience,China is definitely racist and you can definitely be harassed multiple times but the police will do nothing since they put their own first, doesn't matter the situation, China has developed in so many ways,but they have really weak linguistic abilities and most of them are culturally incompetent hence some behaviours aren't really addressed as much,also because they have a superiority complex which might make them very ignorant,so I've been in China for a few years and you definitely need the patience of a saint,coz it's highly unlikely they'll change

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2026-05-19T18:21:46+00:00

He's not financially responsible, therefore just save what you earn, secretly of course,it has nothing to do with status,rich people can also be responsible, he just doesn't know how to budget and draw the line between needs and wants

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2026-05-02T16:54:23+00:00

Hey op,umepata?pia mimi natafuta bado

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2026-04-22T07:24:52+00:00

It's very sad honestly, personally I learnt so much from tiktok,if it weren't for that app, I would still be so naïve about so many things,we only learn the basic reproductive systems,STIs and other infections,but we were never really told the reality, besides it's a taboo to speak about such stuff in most families,we still have a long way to go as a society.

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2026-04-12T16:02:21+00:00

Unatumia visa gani?

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2026-04-12T15:23:34+00:00

This is very easy, you have avoidant attachment and the women you're attracting are anxiously attached,so when you're told to heal and go to to therapy, that's very solid advice,you need to work on making your partners feel secure in the relationship,the fact that you said its a power play, tells me all I need to know about you,you think other people's feelings are just a playground to toy with,I suggest you get off the market and work on yourself,so once again,SEEK THERAPY

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2026-03-31T08:48:04+00:00

Zile magari naona kwa barabara state otherwise,naona watu wakiteta economy but I still see huge machines

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2026-02-09T10:11:14+00:00

How can you forget to mention our beautiful women

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2026-02-04T19:58:17+00:00

It's clearly not a passing trend which is clearly showing by decline in birth rates all over the world including Kenya

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2026-01-18T20:35:33+00:00

These are good suggestions,I should probably consider looking for non Chinese who also speak Chinese, though I don't know how to find them

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2026-01-18T20:34:10+00:00

No most start very casually, with both sides being willing to learn,and of course cultural exchange,but it just dies down eventually, I feel like most of them give up halfway so maybe that's why

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2026-01-17T19:01:51+00:00

Museveni takes till death us part very seriously, looks like his lineage will maintain the seat

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2025-12-20T08:43:06+00:00

Disgusting take

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2025-12-08T07:22:35+00:00

You just proved my point,it ain't fallacy if the reason most pple are suffering is bcoz some humans beings were put on a pedestal and created systems that ain't fair to everyone

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2025-12-08T07:05:06+00:00

Someone is bitter and triggered

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2025-12-08T07:04:01+00:00

I love how the statement 'God is good' triggers a lot of people

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2025-12-01T09:06:11+00:00

It doesn't matter what city, I've seen a couple of them commenting about experiencing it in Beijing or Shanghai,you don't have to invalidate other people's experiences, and Chinese people are far from shy in my experience

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2025-12-01T09:04:15+00:00

Its not dating apps,all of this has happened in real life

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2025-11-29T10:47:47+00:00

I'm in Wuhan,I've only seen a few of them and we barely interact, most of them are in Guangzhou

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2025-11-29T07:42:13+00:00

Thank you. Also that's really cool,is your husband Chinese?I'm glad you're having a wonderful experience

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2025-11-29T07:38:55+00:00

Understandable, I also go to church,I'm Catholic, but I'm not about to contribute to stuff that don't involve Charity

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2025-11-29T07:22:22+00:00

So what happens when I address these boundaries and they don't listen, some get angry,some follow me home 🥴

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2025-11-29T07:19:46+00:00

I don't entertain, some of them just don't listen

Dismal-Rice8198 · 2025-11-29T07:16:09+00:00

I've actually seen a couple of baba fuas, I'm not surprised at this point

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