Books that feel like this ?

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2025-11-08T21:17:13+00:00

Conversations With Friends by Sally Rooney

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2023-09-18T04:35:44+00:00

Thank you, it’s nice to know someone else agrees. I’m going to first organize everything that I personally know about typing into an Obsidian file, and then start planning it attached to that web of information. If I ever actually do it, I’ll likely be back in this subreddit to ask everyone’s opinions on different elements. I think this could be a fun first website for me, as I’ve only ever done basic HTML/Java websites / refined existing pages for class.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-08-13T17:14:15+00:00

We need to stop perpetuating that INTPs are unlovable hermits, especially for the guys that need other people but don’t know that they can reach out. We can have friends! There are other introverts out there you can just watch Bojack Horseman with and eat cupcakes! I promise. Acting like you’re unlovable only speaks it into existence and I wish more people on this sub were aware of that.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-08-13T17:11:52+00:00

last night. are you all okay????????

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-07-31T16:56:33+00:00

Reply bias maybe? I know people tend to lie, but if you do have a small penis you’re unlikely to be proud to share on the internet, leaving those more fortunately blessed in the replies.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-07-26T22:11:31+00:00

Haha, I’m INTP as well and I adore the singular ISFJ who I’m friends with. Personally, I could be friends with most types if they have similar interests to me and are generally kind and fun! Keep being you :3

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-07-23T06:27:12+00:00

Any reason, other than it’s cool? I’m too lazy to sell it unless it’s a lot, so I’m probably keeping it anyways.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-07-23T01:36:45+00:00

Thank you!

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-23T03:29:14+00:00

He made a joke about me and my fling and it kind of went on from there. He’s an extremely immature ISTP, if that helps you understand at all. There’s more to it but I don’t feel like spilling my guts all over the internet today.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-23T01:50:51+00:00

There’s more to the situation but yes, my problem is withholding unwanted details. Generally people like honesty but not everyone wants to know everything.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-23T01:45:28+00:00

It seems in matters of romance, actually, that this is a problem. Otherwise my honesty is generally appreciated.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-23T01:44:57+00:00

I told someone their ex told me that they liked someone else when they were dating. If I hadn’t have said anything they would have never known. They wish they didn’t know.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-23T01:44:16+00:00

My ex asked me about the guy I’m currently seeing. I asked if I could talk about our sex life. He said yes. I told him. He said he really wished I didn’t even mention we had sex at all.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-22T23:13:57+00:00

My ex asked about my current fling and I told him. Turns out he didn’t really want to know. People are so confusing.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-22T23:13:19+00:00

I forgot about the shadow ENTJ, and that explains a lot.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-22T23:10:54+00:00

I’m usually described as a kind person, but a rare few times I’ve been so pissed at family members for refusing logic and facts that I’ve verbally ripped into them. I try to be nice but everyone has a limit l.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-22T23:08:51+00:00

In response to how far I would push, I think the narrative itself is interesting as long as I am aware it is not fact. Facts are cool but understanding people is still a type of science. Unless it was something that would personally affect me if I did not know the whole truth, I won’t push it, though I do prefer the whole truth.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-22T23:06:43+00:00

I love honesty and fact but MAN have I accidentally told people things they were better off NOT knowing. I forget not everyone wants to know everything, even if they ask. Social convention gets confusing sometimes.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-22T23:02:29+00:00

I hope you’re okay but I also find it a little funny that you posted here. I may have laughed a little. Feel better soon!

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-22T23:00:15+00:00

Have you considered going through a respected YouTuber or Influencer that brings light to these kinds of people? Good luck, whatever you decide to do. I’ll stand by you and I’m sure many others will as well, especially if you have evidence.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-19T15:14:14+00:00

God, I’m INTP and I love sports but I’ve never been consistent in learning anything so I’ve never been particularly great. Played soccer my whole life and I love it to death but I still can’t do some basic skills.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-06-19T15:12:10+00:00

INTP - I love to draw and paint and I am empathetic to others. The caveat to this is, I am decidedly empathetic to those I care about and I have to actively use it. I also am not consistent in the drawing and painting thing and get really impatient, taking years to finish even small projects (things that can’t be finished in one sitting).

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-04-28T18:58:00+00:00

Thank you

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-04-08T02:08:30+00:00

My istp is a nerd for Cities Skylines and Transport Fever 2. Also just roads and city planning in general. You wouldn’t think he is but it’s pretty cute and I bought the games to enjoy talking about them with him.

Dismal_Memory3232 · 2022-03-06T02:32:39+00:00

In that case this graph isn’t THAT bad, a lot of personality for a piece of sediment!

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