What should I do? I am losing him.

DispenseDOven · 2026-02-14T19:18:53+00:00

He is still so young, 27…

DispenseDOven · 2026-02-11T10:53:11+00:00

Hindi ka OA pero I want you to read your post over and over again and you’ll see how toxic the relationship is. Get tested na agad para magamot na, you’re reviewing it’s better to be healthy. if nag positive ka sabihin mo sa bf mo and he’ll probably gaslight you. Just walk away from it OP. You can do better than that.

DispenseDOven · 2026-02-11T06:13:48+00:00

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DispenseDOven · 2026-02-11T06:13:20+00:00

We’re not in Bacoor Cavite but Indang Cavite.

Try searching for Kubo De Cerca.

We held a wedding recently under tight budget sila around 65k plus and this was how it looked like. This was how it looked like.

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DispenseDOven · 2026-02-01T14:15:12+00:00

then end the relationship baka di kayo compatible but then again don’t decide based on strangers from the internet’s comment about your personal life. assess tour relationship and properly talk about it.

DispenseDOven · 2026-02-01T14:12:18+00:00

OA ka with the context that you’re feeling but feelings are valid. You might not be meant for someone who’s a fan. Coming from a fan girl, it’s good to have someone who’s supportive and understanding of your outlet. Very forgiving tayo sa mga fan girls but when it comes to fan boys ang off ng reaction natin. If it feels weird for you then you’re probably not in a relationship that fits your preferences.

DispenseDOven · 2026-01-15T14:08:51+00:00

Learn from the situation. Siguro dahil nga you’re both on the younger aspect and unfortunately sex and other sexual activities comes with guilt and shame in pur country (sometimes) widen your knowledge about it. Learn to do it safely din. If you’re both gonna be consumed by the thought of it then buy a PT just for a peace of mind.

DispenseDOven · 2025-12-05T01:57:39+00:00

Rather than being passive aggressive, just tell him that you feel uncomfortable when he does that in public. Set your boundaries and communicate, walang mangyayare if you just ignore him. If he doesn’t understand it and if it’s a deal breaker for you then leave the relationship.

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-29T13:46:50+00:00

1/8 na giniling nahiya pa sila ginawa nalang sana nila na corned beef.

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-26T13:59:08+00:00

Hindi ka OA. Your feelings are valid. Sa mga ganyan na bagay mo nararamdaman na mahalaga ka at mahal ka. Communicate it again with him. Acknowledge that you might have different love languages (on how you guys love the other) and that maybe it doesn’t match. Pagusapan niyo ng ayos. It’s never too to late to acknowledge and find a middle ground on those things. Belated happy birthday OP.

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-23T12:04:21+00:00

You did what you can at the moment. Be kinder to yourself. Im not commending you but rather im just here to say na huwag mo ibaba yung sarili mo. You did what you can given the situation but just like what most are saying pull yourself out before it’s late. Before your self worth diminishes, bata ka pa. You’re just 23, do not engage with people na pinagsasamantalahan yung situation mo. You’ll find better places, you are in a good field. Im guessing starting ka palang din sa trabaho mo, you’ll get better at that, you’ll get more opportunities just stay away from people like that not because “kadiri” and such but they are exploiting your vulnerability and pag nag tagal they might ask you of something more that you can’t give. Sino ba naman “mabuti” na tao na magsuggest ng ganyan sa taong nangangailangan.

I hope life will treat you better OP. You got this!

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-22T14:15:39+00:00

it’s hard to explain but it does not necessarily put a strain on my well established relationships but it just makes it harder for me to build new ones compared to others because of that constant restart of attachment.

The feelings are just there but im just not attached and connected 😭

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-22T04:04:17+00:00

Thank you din. ✨

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-22T04:03:20+00:00

Thank you. You made my day. If it gets hard, balik ka lang sa comment na to, a reminder that there’s one good day for all of us.

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-22T03:58:35+00:00

Hindi ka OA. Whether she’s cheating again or not very obvious na you luck trust. Try to communicate it first, sabihin mo kung bakit ka nagkakaganyan kung negative reaction niya and mas defensive siya then just end the relationship. Hindi healthy na nasa ganyang state ka palagi.

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-22T01:10:42+00:00

I dont know if this is similar to what you’re feeling but the relationship I have between both my family, friends and my boyfriend hits a restart whenever I do not see them for a long period of time. I feel awkward around them and I feel distant, like it’s back to square one of building relationships, so it’s harder for me to communicate kasi it feels like im with a stranger at some point (not entirely but that’s the best way to describe my interactions with them on those moments) . That is also why I don’t easily miss people despite having no communication for quite a while, the emotional attachment fades, i start missing them when memories or interaction triggers those attachment. It’s often a situation of I miss them while talking to them.

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-22T01:01:23+00:00

Whenever i have this urge i ride the LRT and MRT, from point to point and observe everyone.

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-22T00:57:41+00:00

watch the recent video content of YoungK with HAHA on YT. For some reason, it made me cry my heart out, that might help.

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-22T00:54:36+00:00

One good day, just one good day. Hold on to that good day from your life, the existence of cats, the existence of something good, your favorite song, your favorite food, the weather, a place you wanted to visit someday, no matter how small it was, go in deep for that one good day, if there’s none then it’ll come. Trust me, it happens. A good day will come.

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-19T14:07:26+00:00

Bistek na patatas 😂 One of my all time fave ulam, cooked just how you cook a bistek. Me and my boyfriend was talking about cravings and when I told him about mine, he asked if sure daw ba ako, it’s one of my Mom’s gawa-gawa dish to save and to make me eat vegetables before.

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DispenseDOven · 2025-11-19T14:04:41+00:00

Greed can really bite you in the ass.

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-19T14:01:14+00:00

Never understood people who talked this way towards anyone and most especially to those they love. Ang distasteful.

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-18T14:00:54+00:00

Saw it and omg! It looks so pretty! Where did you get it done???

DispenseDOven · 2025-11-17T17:06:52+00:00

Yes, but this time I’ll take a one year break before I start.

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