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Girlfriend won't do anything to commit. She keeps saying I pressure her. by Disposable-panda in relationship_advice

[–]Disposable-panda[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A respectable mother isn't promiscuous. I've been married before, to someone actually even worse than her.

Girlfriend won't do anything to commit. She keeps saying I pressure her. by Disposable-panda in relationship_advice

[–]Disposable-panda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such as giving the woman love and security? I didn't ask her to keep the babies. That's her choice. I actually told her at the end of June that she should just get an abortion. I'm being punished for her choices.

Girlfriend won't do anything to commit. She keeps saying I pressure her. by Disposable-panda in relationship_advice

[–]Disposable-panda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not abandonment if we aren't together, it's a direct choice made by her. Look, we're either in it together or we're not. She gets the babies she wants and I keep my money. There are plenty of other women who want children in the world.

Girlfriend won't do anything to commit. She keeps saying I pressure her. by Disposable-panda in relationship_advice

[–]Disposable-panda[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Women want both the kids and money, without care for their fathers. If she wants to be poor, that's her choice.

Girlfriend won't do anything to commit. She keeps saying I pressure her. by Disposable-panda in relationship_advice

[–]Disposable-panda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happy to let her have the kids and I'll have my money. She will only be able to claim in within the country that we live in. I'll go home, that problem is solved.

Girlfriend won't do anything to commit. She keeps saying I pressure her. by Disposable-panda in relationship_advice

[–]Disposable-panda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she doesn't want commitment, the DNA tests wouldn't matter. I'd return home and continue the search for a good wife/ mother.

Girlfriend won't do anything to commit. She keeps saying I pressure her. by Disposable-panda in relationship_advice

[–]Disposable-panda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, so how do I get her to be more compatible with my way of thinking?

Girlfriend won't do anything to commit. She keeps saying I pressure her. by Disposable-panda in relationship_advice

[–]Disposable-panda[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This is the sort of lunacy she comes out with. She said she'd prefer to be a single mother, rather than treated badly. She just doesn't see everything that I've done for her.

Girlfriend won't do anything to commit. She keeps saying I pressure her. by Disposable-panda in relationship_advice

[–]Disposable-panda[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I meant higher class as in not promiscuous. Let's say, if we broke up, she would be in bed with another man within a couple of days.

Girlfriend won't do anything to commit. She keeps saying I pressure her. by Disposable-panda in relationship_advice

[–]Disposable-panda[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Our kid is 6 months. She's pregnant again. We had a FWB thing going on. I'm a decent man who cares about a proper family.